Infidelity

infidelity - second chances?
Philippines
May 29, 2007 3:38am CST
Infidelity or cheating do u forgive & give second chances?
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9 responses
@ladysakurax (1161)
• Canada
13 Apr 08
no. If my bf would go off to see someone else, it means that he doesn't love me. There must be a good reason for him to see that girl. Maybe she's nicer, more open minded, etc. For instance, he would go off and meet that person. His feelings are swaying. I wouldn't give second chance. If he really changed and becomes a good person, it will be hard for me to see if he did change for good and I won't trust him again. I would break up and he will go on with his life and find someone else.
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• Philippines
16 Apr 08
Thank you for your input. Have a great day=)
@johndur (3052)
• Pasig, Philippines
11 Apr 08
lovers - lovers picture
i do forgive but only once and when she repeats it then its time to let her go.as the saying once done always will....so its ok to forgive once but never twice...
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• Philippines
13 Apr 08
yup you are right. Thanks for responding!
@ryanphil01 (4182)
• Philippines
29 May 07
if i have caught them in the act it would totally be the end of it all. the book is closed. if i have known it through rumors, i would have confronted her and have a 'heart-to-heart talk' and resolve the issues. i might give her time to prove herself why i should not give her a second chance.
• Philippines
29 May 07
heart to heart talk will be a good idea and by giving time to prove oneself for second chance. thanks!
• United States
31 May 07
I believe everyone deserves a second chance, but not third and fourth chances...I can accept a mistake if they kep repeating it it is unforgivable
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• Philippines
2 Jun 07
thanks for that =)
@Aniakim (351)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
29 May 07
been there, done that. and i am thankful for the second chance that was given to me. let's face it, there are no perfect relationships. we're humans, we stumble along the way. but as long as you're ready to accept your mistakes, say sorry and learn from them, i guess you deserve a second chance. in the end, the guy still asked me to marry him, he's a saint. i would've missed out on that one special guy if he didn't gave me my chance of a lifetime.
• Philippines
29 May 07
Oh lucky you! well maybe one mistake is okay, everybody deserves second chances as what you have said just accept your mistakes say sorry and learn from it. thankies =)
• Romania
24 Mar 08
Infidelity is tough but it takes two people to screw up a relationship. Men dont hunt unless they have to and women dont make themselves available unless they are not getting something at home. Infidelity is not usually an impulse it takes motive and opportunity. It can be forgiven, probably not forgotten...
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• Philippines
2 Apr 08
But some men are really polygamous in nature. They say you really havent forgive unless you forget right?
• India
29 May 07
no i won't, if there is really that makes my mate to prefer another person, i would improve and drive them out of my life.
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• Philippines
29 May 07
agree.. thanks for sharing =)
@joimarquez (1836)
• United States
29 May 07
no way its unforgiveable. A CHEATER WILL ALWAYS BE A CHEATER!!!
• Philippines
29 May 07
Dont you think there are some people who change and correct their mistakes?
4 Jun 07
Hi there, Not me no second chances it would be over.
• Philippines
5 Jun 07
Even if you really love the guy? what if its your fault that's why he cheated?