You and your boyfriend/girlfriend love each other very much...

thanks! well, there was a lot of drama actually. my parents were so opposed we have to hide a lot but eventually we were able to convinced them to accept our relationship.

Ah yes, hiding. Me and my girlfriend now did a bit of that, although mostly hiding from her parents. It was sort of fun while it lasted.

So you did fight for the one you love. That's sweet, and bold :) But how did your parents react? Have they accepted your decision? Best of luck to you and your spouse :)

I'm sure most of us tried talking to our parents. I did, and all I got was a heapful of hostility and a few hard objects thrown at me :( I suppose achieving a balance between relationships and parents are possible but it was pretty hard in my case...even though I wasn't really hurting anyone.I am for fighting for love, but sometimes, I felt bad for my girlfriend because my parents didn't accept her and she probably felt like poop.

Aww...I'm sorry to hear that. How come your parents won't let you decide? Do you still love him? I hope someday you still end up together, or whoever you think is the right one for you...

Wow, I never thought something like this would be possible. Most of the people I know were forced to choose between their love or their parents, and they usually end in a painful separation. I myself had a girlfriend that my parents didn't like; I tried fighting for her, and I started being hostile to my parents...but in the end, I dissolved the relationship anyway because I realized she wasn't really the one I wanted to be with forever. I think it's really, really nice of you as a parent to let your daughter stay and even marry her boyfriend despite you not liking him. Your daughter must be extremely happy and thankful, and I am happy for her too. I hope you all get along someday.

Fight for love! But don't disrespect your parents. I hope the time doesn't come that your parents force you to break up with your boyfriend...that would be really sad :( Help make your parents see what a nice guy your boyfriend is (if he really is). Good luck!

I really try hard no to disrespect them but I really want to be with my boyfriend. I know I sound cheesy but he's the only one for me.. So whatever happens, I'd really want us to end up together..

I agree. Parents should set rules, but not rules that will break their child's heart. After all, they're not there to dictate his or her life, but to help him/her make the right choices and make sure they will be happy with them when the time comes for them to leave the house. I think parents should listen to what their children have to say first before they start making ultimate judgments. And children should listen to their parents too, and all of them should work this out together to attain a balance.