How do you get rid of a Stocker...

Crazy men - He needs to be put in a life jacket soon
United States
May 30, 2007 12:56pm CST
Ok this dude is getting on my nerves I've tried to be nice and it isnt working... it all started from a simple exchange of a phone number. at first everything was cool we talked, and then he decided he wanted to get intimate over the phone... of course being an adult sometimes you feel the urge to be creative and have a little phone itimacy... afterwich he starts talking about how he wants to be my man and he wants me to bare his first child... so Im like hold on partner... you moving a little to fast for momma this is suppose to be fun...i'm not looking to marry you mind you its only been a couple of days... then he starts calling during work hours... ok that has to stop...I told him Im at work and cannot be disturbed... so he ask what you don't want to talk to me... im like did you not understand the concept of being at work... so time passes and he still calls and I don't answer because now I'm starting to feel smoothered... he called 19 times in 30 minutes 30MINUTES what in the hell is going on here... he left 10 messages saying oh you don't want to talk to me, then be women enough to tell me and starts cussing me out mind you this is the fourth day... ok I cant take it I told him loose my number...and that wasn't good enough so he calls me non stop for 3 days apologizing for cussing me out saying I can't live without you and I want you to be my wife in the future... still i didnt reply...and then he stops so Im thinking good he finally stopped but oh no this clown calls me today and sends me pictues of him and his little friend in between his legs (and little it is)... oh my... what to do...cause this dude has lost his ever loving mind...
2 responses
• United States
30 May 07
In a situation like this you must one not answer his calls at all, if he has your home number find out from the phone company the code to block it. If he only has your cell have the cell company tell you how to stop taking incoming calls. Tell your mother, father and brother if you have one let someone know about this idiot. If you have a picture of him show it to everyone so if he knows where you work or live people will recognize him. If you ignore him long enough he will go away do not give him any encouragement at all, if he does not get your family and police involved.
• United States
30 May 07
oh wow do you think its that serious... I guess looking at it from a nother point it can be...I most def. told my peeps about him because his actions have really surprised me...I've never gone through something like this before...its just crazy... thanks girl I will take all you said into consideration how scary
• United States
4 Jun 07
you sound prepared and experienced. It's really serious when some continues to harass you.
• United States
30 Jun 08
Wow!! This sounds almost the same as the woman who is stalking me and i have no clue on how to get rid of her without making her mad because who knows what she will do. Anyway your post was like a year ago and i am woundering how things wentbecause i just dont know what to do. Joe