what is the glue that holds your relationship together?

@saralee1 (1983)
United States
May 31, 2007 4:44am CST
is it love, money, kids, fear?
7 responses
@Madona1 (2098)
• Gibraltar
31 May 07
I think the glue that holds our relationship together is kids and commiment. The romantic and crazy love and sort of chemicals things have slowly vanished following the years of marriage. Instead, the relationship has become a sort of commiment and living style. Kids become first and relationship becomes second to keep a family running.
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@saralee1 (1983)
• United States
21 Jun 07
I am glad I don't have kids then. (LOL) JK, I have heard that a lot.My husband and I are best friends. I always wanted that in a partner. I know way too much about him, and vice versa. we are each others best friends.
• United States
31 May 07
I think the glue that holds this relationship together is simply time...back when we were kids, we never had time for each other..now, we are adults and sat down to come to the conclusion that a relationship would work out..we invested about 8 years to get to this point and it was worth it..
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@saralee1 (1983)
• United States
31 May 07
time! that is a good one, I didn't even think about that one! LOL! thank you for your comment, btw
@Abbyey (760)
• Philippines
31 May 07
I think what holds us together is LOVE and TIME. We have been together for 5 years and in this long years it was LOVE that kept us strong in a lot of trials and struggles. We know that in each one of us that LOVE holds us together. With that love comes our Fear for GOD which build the trust we have for one another. Never doubting.
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• India
31 May 07
I think trust ,respect n communication that holds any relationship together.
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@mari_skye (1638)
• Philippines
31 May 07
well, i'd say love, trust and probably our commitment to each other (?) hahhahaha..... i would like to believe these to be so.
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@navtech (1776)
• India
31 May 07
I do not understand fully your question because you have said summarily relationship. I hope you mean the relationship betwen husband and wife since you have mentioned kids. Between the husband and wife the glue that holds relationship between them is love and kids. Money and fear are remotely related to relationship because money will not stand when love between them exists. If fear is cause then they will get separated soon. Therefore basically relationship is maintained based on love and kids between the husband and wife.
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@gloria777 (1675)
• India
1 Jun 07
understanding & ofcourse fear of God.