for greener pasture

Thailand
May 31, 2007 8:13am CST
I'm based in Thailand when I got engaged with my girlfriend residing in US. A year later, we got married. Planning the wedding was kinda difficult coz we were away from each other and the wedding was to take place in the Philippines. In short, we got married and a month after, we were on our different ways - Thailand and US. Since visa processing is difficult, we decided to wait for my US visa to come and join her there. "You complete me" now keeps ringing on my ears as we're supposed to be one. One is supposed to complement the other and vice-versa. However, I feel like I am strong by myself through the years of being alone. Help me out please before I lose it... Thanks everyone..
1 response
@mrsbrian (1949)
• United States
31 May 07
I would wonder why you chose to marry some one you could not live with it is not fair to either one of you.What kind of marriage could you possibly be having and how long will you be apart.Maby it would be easier for her to join you there.
• Thailand
31 May 07
i chose her because i love her. we thought it would be easier for her to bring me to US since we're already married. Since her status will be changing from immigrant to citizen, immigration officials say it would be much faster. it's easier for her to join me here but financially speaking, we'd be in trouble. thanks, mrs brian. i appreciate your response. hope to hear from you again.