frustrated because of possesive.

I think being overly possesive is not healthy especialy with your partner (bF/gf,Husband/wife).The reason why peoples are very possesive because: 1)Having to much free time . 2)Lack of self confident,insecurity- very jelousy 3)Having trust issue 5)scare of being lonely My advice is may be you can encourage her to go out to have fun with her friends or do something that she is interested .Use up her free time in the productive way rather then just hanging around you all the time.Because i and my husband we like to have our own time once in a while.There is always a time together and time for doing your own thing.

Its about time you talk to your girlfriend seriously about the situation, let her hear your side and let her say her side.. By that you can resolve conflicts. I've been in that situation with my boyfriend. I talked to him that he mustlearn to trust me and strenghten his faith on me. He listened and understood my side, that sometimes I need my space for my individuality. I listened to his reasons, that he really loves me and never want to loose me and I understood it. If he did not stop his doubts I could have left him for good. I don't want to continue a relationship with less trust. It's suffocating..

you don't have to be harsh but you must be honest. let her know that you love her, and enjoy talking to her, but you need to yourself. and you can not have all these personal calls at work. i find if you are honest and she doesn't not respect that, then you need to find someone who will respect you as a person and your personal time

Sorry about your troubles...heres what to do when shes calls the office giver her 30seconds of attention such as hi baby how are you great to here your voice well I will call you later but I cant talk right now I am at the office. Then heres what to do on the weekends call her or plan with her from thursday tell her what you have to do on the weekend plan things that you will do alone then set out a date for when you two will meet keep doing this every weekend have your plans set for your alone time and then plan something with your sweetie. Relationships arent easy at all and if shes worth the frustration then set a habit for your alone time but dont make her feel as if she is the burden because i am a woman we tend to be sensitive and take the message in the wrong way. best of luck to your and your sweetie.

Just have a nice dinner and sit down and talk with her, don't make it sound like a break up just be honest. Tell her that she is interfering with your work and your personal time, and that you love her but she's being a little needy. Just be honest ok, the most important thing in a relationship is honesty.