where do you go when things go wrong?

go with the person which can help you ease the pai - i love my family and friends
Philippines
June 1, 2007 2:59am CST
when things go wrong and when sadness fills my heart..with no second thoughts..i'll stay inside my room.i'll just cry,talk to myself and sometimes talk to God..but if my room really can't ease the pain that i am feelin,i'll go to church(specifically in the adoration chapel)..its a quiet room wherein people can pray and sometimes cry.. after that..of course,i'll to my friends for comfort..friends help me to move on..give me strength when i am weak..and give pieces of advice that really helps me alot.. how about you?,.,if you can no longer take the pain that you are feelin?where do you go? just wanted to tell you guys that im free if you need some comfort..lol!ill be here if you need someone!^__^
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@Asian001 (24)
• Brunei Darussalam
27 Aug 07
I never thought of this question before. I am not a perfect man, but what i believed is the balancing of everything. I never predict that everything in my life will go smoothly. When i do somethings, i already give some space for the bad situation that may come through. Sometimes, i know what i need to give up in my life when things start going wrong.
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• Philippines
28 Aug 07
well,that's good..atleast you know how to react on some bad situations that's always happening to you..its good that you're always ready in every bad situations that may happen to you.. -thanks for responding!
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@060157 (1059)
• Pakistan
24 Aug 07
whether i m hurt or not, i always pray to God to take away my worries. and when i m hurt, i like to be alone and think about why did things go wrong. i shifted to a new city just recently so i dont have any really close friends here, so if i really feel like sharing what happened, i share it with a friend of mine who lives in the city where i lived b4. she really comforts me and helps me out.
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• Philippines
28 Aug 07
I already experience that..its hard for me to adjust and to gain new friends..but as the day goes by,i already have friends..and sometimes i visit my childhood friends and trusted friends.. -that's what i am doing also..if i have problems..I always talk to God even if he's not physically there..I know that he's listening to me,and take away all my worries.. --thanks for responding!
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@aj2006 (1534)
• Philippines
24 Aug 07
my room is my haven when I feel bad too..
• Philippines
24 Aug 07
I couldnt disgaree any more...............the room is the best place to be whn u have problems................in silent contemplation away from a wild and cruel world and hidden from the ravages of life
• Philippines
24 Aug 07
--i agree with you on that..room is the best place to be alone..
• Philippines
24 Aug 07
me too.. --thanks for responding!
• Philippines
24 Aug 07
Well me....................it doesnt bother me as much since im used to all the s**t life offers me, which is nothing but s**t, so i guess why would i bother calling upon a non existent "god" who never was there, is there and will be there, friends who are a bunch of hypocrites and liars who pretened to care and who only "care" simply because thye want to feel like "heroes", just like most feeble sheep humans. So in my case, i dont really care since i know that all happiness and joy is man made and all hopes are all delusional since man, so feeble minded cannot solve problems on their own and is super dependent on other weaker humans, and especially dependent on non existent entities like "gods" "holy guardian angels" and all that bulls**t This is all the result of 10,000 years of evolution gap in the mind caused by imaginary feebleness
• Philippines
24 Aug 07
Because of years of experience and knowledge.I have seen in my own life that everything in this reality u can make up........god, happiness, angels, demons, whatever.There are no such things as these.I used to dabble in all religions and anything spiritual only to find how deluded was i with such crap, including new Thought and the "Secret" nonsense...only to find out the world isnt perfect and that such rules amde by religion and spirituality are false I ahve also learned that the world is what it always is...eat or be eaten....no different from the anim al kingdom since that is what we humans are...animals with reason..But our reason and "animal selves" have degenerated due to 10,000 years of stupidity and imagination
• Philippines
24 Aug 07
ok..I do got your point!..^__^
• Philippines
24 Aug 07
I really wanted to know on why do you have that kind of views..you seem so interesting..I know that there is a reason behind all those things..on why you are saying all that..I know that there are so called "friends" who wants to feel like heroes..but i wanted to thank those "heroes"..coz they always makes me feel good..--its better for me not to speak..because I dont want to make this topic long..but I agree with you that happiness and joy is manmade..happiness comes from within.. --I guess your a loner..am i right?do you have friends?im just curious.thanks for responding..and have a peaceful day..^__^
@myliezl0903 (2726)
• Philippines
23 Aug 07
all of us in this world does have problem.,who doesn't have? even the richest people encountered different problems right? one of the place that i usually go when im really sad or when i need an answer to my problems is in adoration church.,i prayed a lot there because i know that he will listen to me...we really don't need to go somewhere like in a place like bar, or go out town...just a simple prayer will do.
• Philippines
24 Aug 07
Ah prayer...............................Praying is like calling Santa Claus to come give u a present y
• Philippines
23 Aug 07
i agree with..in times of trouble,prayer is the best answer and comfort..i Know that even God doesnt exist physically,but spiritually and emotionally,he's always there for us..
• Philippines
24 Aug 07
oh come on!dont you know how to respect the answers of others?..If we believe in God or prayers,then respect us,and if you believe in satan or whatever,then we respect you.let me remind you that its their views not yours..so please stop what your doing..its not your response anyway,..please mind your own business.thanks!
@tute_cute (317)
• Indonesia
24 Aug 07
Whenever i'm sad or something go wrong, i like to be alone and cry.....i will go fine after crying and i like to be alone.......i ask myself "what's the matter???" and i find a way to finish my problems......i'd love to be alone or sometimes i must go to my friend's house to share anything ..........
• Philippines
24 Aug 07
Yeha sharing it is so much better..........since sharing will prevent u from keeping it in yourself which will cause future problems
• Philippines
24 Aug 07
yeah!sharing it to the person whom you can trust can ease the pain that you are feeling.
• Philippines
24 Aug 07
me too..that's the way i solve my problems.. --thanks for responding!
@nvtellan (1907)
• Philippines
8 Nov 07
I usually go somewhere where I'll be able to be alone. I just want to be alone and think it over things with myself first. This place is usually my room. But if my room does not offer enough solace then I may get out and go to the nearest park and hopefully the people and things around will at least sooth my pain and help me get my head off the problem for a while. I seldom approach someone to comfort me because I've tried in the past that so far, I have resolved things on my own.
• Philippines
8 Nov 07
good..but I guess you should try sharing to someone sometimes.you dont have to hear their thoughts or something,but sharing it to others may help you to ease the pain that you are feeling. -thanks for responding!
@patrice7 (1191)
• United States
3 Sep 07
helo there!. when things go wrong i do just about the same things as you do.. i go to my room and cry if i feel like crying. i just sit there or lie in my bed and cry my heart out and thenm when all the tears have been shed i now plot my revenge.. well i realize that the things that hurt me where things that i allowed to hurt me so i think things over and decide to be strong and as much as possible fight the evil things from hurting me.
• Philippines
4 Sep 07
yeah..there's a saying about that.. "IT'S NOT WHAT THE PEOPLE DO TO US THAT HURTS US.IN THE MOST FUNDAMENTAL SENSE, IT IS OUR CHOSEN RESPONSE TO WHAT THEY DO TO USS THAT HURTS US.".. -keep on responding!
• Canada
23 Aug 07
When things go wrong I usually go to my husband and tell him what is bothering me and if he is not around I call my best friend . But if I need to think about things on my own then I go for a drive and listen to music . I usually just drive around or go down to the beach and sit by the water and try to clear my thought and figure out what I am going to do .
• Philippines
24 Aug 07
me too..i sometimes call my boyfriend if ever i feel empty and lonely..he always gave me the best comfort..he listens to to my every problems,and when i am crying,he always offer his chest or his shoulder for me to lean on. i sometimes listen to music..it really suites my soul and calm me..it helps me to think properly...and when im already fine,i'll just go to sleep.. --keep on responding!
• Philippines
1 Jun 07
when things go wrong, i want to know the reason for it. so, usually i want to be alone first to size things up. then i will look for someone i can talk to about it. ask for opinions or advises. trying to know the ropes of life all the more. if it is a painful experience, i will go to my room and lock myself up. cry really hard until the pain is eased out. then i am strong again and will fight again for my place in this sometimes, very rough and very unfriendly world.
• Philippines
1 Jun 07
yeah..that's good..i also do the same thing..and it really helps.
@abrarr (1246)
• Pakistan
1 Jun 07
well when such situation comes i smoke a lot, and drive a lot but slow driving. smokin and slow drivin is all wat i do when this happenns to me!!!
• Philippines
4 Jun 07
well i guess..on your part..it really helps.
@rangics (1334)
• Philippines
1 Jun 07
I as well prefer to stay in my room and talk to myself! That's the best place here on earth that really gives me comfort when sadness fills my heart. ;( If I can no longer bear the pain, I start calling out my friends and somehow share to them my frustrations in life.
• Philippines
4 Jun 07
yeah..me too..i always do that..
• Philippines
24 Aug 07
Yeah much better do that since the only thing in life that really cares about you is YOU.The external forces in your life only care but with a special interest
@xiuluoelly (1224)
• China
3 Sep 07
I do not like others to express my feelings, so when something goes wrong, I put myself in the customs house, and then try to find out the reasons for mistakes, and then try to compensate. If irreparable mistake, even if I am very sad not to tell others, but he has to shoulder, because I hate other people's sympathy. Arabic to English BETAChinese to English BETAChinese (Simplified to Traditional) BETAChinese (Traditional to Simplified) BETAEnglish to Arabic BETAEnglish to Chinese (Simplified) BETAEnglish to Chinese (Traditional) BETAEnglish to FrenchEnglish to GermanEnglish to ItalianEnglish to Japanese BETAEnglish to Korean BETAEnglish to PortugueseEnglish to Russian BETAEnglish to SpanishFrench to EnglishFrench to GermanGerman to EnglishGerman to FrenchItalian to EnglishJapanese to English BETAKorean to English BETAPortuguese to EnglishRussian to English BETASpanish to English
• Philippines
4 Sep 07
I do that sometimes..I'll just go inside my room and talk to myself..then cry,for as long as i can..until i feel that i am ok. -me too..i dont want other people give me sympathy..that's why when i am crying,it will always be inside my room.. -keep on responding!
• China
24 Aug 07
I will also stay in my room when i am sad,and i don't like to talk to anybody ,instead ,i talk to myself,and comfort myself.
• Philippines
24 Aug 07
you can also share it to others..it will help..