can ur friend bcome ur lover

India
June 1, 2007 4:18am CST
hi friend in many cases i say the situvations where a guy and girl r first friends then bcame lovers is that correct?did u have such experiense
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@kjc1981 (45)
• United States
1 Jun 07
it is very well possible the father of my kids was my best friend first in 6th grade was when we became friends and we got together when we were 15 yrs old and were together for almost 9 years i still consider him to be one of my best friends i know that i'll always be there for him when ever he needs me!
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• China
1 Jun 07
My boyfriend and I used to be best friends. From some reason, We becomes lovers. It is true that we have much funs because we know a lot about each other My feeling about him is very different after being his girlfriend. Sometimes I am scared to see some many shortcomings in him. If I were not his girlfriend, I won't know that. It it hard to say good or bad when best friends become lovers.It is a adventure for such a thing. As I have known, friendship also is over when the lovers split up
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@ESKARENA1 (18261)
1 Jun 07
yes i do believe friends can become lovers. In many ways i think this is the best way for it to be. I feel for a relationship to last long-term it is important for a couple to be friends as well as lovers blessed be
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@Shaun72 (15959)
• Palatka, Florida
15 Jun 07
I have never had it happen to me but I have heard of a lot of couples that are friends at first and then fall in love.
@djmarion (4898)
• Philippines
1 Jun 07
yes, i believe so, friends can be lovers just like some songs said...sometimes its better to have your friend become your lover, at least you have known each other well.
2 Jun 07
Excellent positive reply Djmarion.... :) Did u have any such experience or any among your friend's circle?
@sandeep_t (428)
• India
6 Jun 07
It is justifiable and even recommended that one better be friends first and lovers next. It is because you get to know a lot about each other when you are friends and when you feel you are compatable, it is then you take the relationship to next level. So that you dont face ant troubles in future.
16 Jun 07
Yes Sandeep , I agree ! Thanks :)
• United States
1 Jun 07
yes it can happen, but it depends on both of you if your both willing to end the friendship and go further. as the other person said it can go badly, but it may also be like meeting your soulmate. in my case i was close to having a close friend of mine as my steady boyfriend, we didn't become as a couple. i guess we value our friendship more than having a serious relationship.
@donsky14 (5947)
• Philippines
1 Jun 07
yes, friends can become lovers. The good thing about that, is that you're pretty much comfortable with your partner cause you started as friends. The bad side about that is that, if the relationship might end...then the friendship might end with it as well.
@rajes22r (35)
1 Jun 07
Yes!!! Ur friend can definitely become ur lover if both have remained very TRUE by heart ! TRUE FRIENDS have remained as such , but that was long before , but now they fall in love . This has become a very common fact nowadays.The world has changed a lot , dat loving or marrying a person whom you have not known 'may' cause terrible problems in your future , this has happened in my relatives' family . Thats the reason as to why most of the people are committed to their Boy/GirlFriend because they trust eachother... One example is that Bollywood star Hrithik Roshan married his GirlFriend Suzanne and there are similar such cases with my mates aswell.If one has a bad impression on the other then it is highly impossible . If LOVE develops among a boy or a girl who are VERY TRUE FRIENDS AND CLOSE TO EACHOTHER BY HEART then that LOVE will never fail...their relation will be transformed to a longlasting one.But if it fails then their FRIENDSHIP can't be true because they wouldve had a negative thought in their relation or lack of trust or or or ..it just doesn't make sense u know...That's the power of FRIENDSHIP , it can turn friends into lovers . ONLY a person who is in Love can define both and differentiate Love with that of Friendhsip --this is like, 'a school kid cannot solve the sums that his elder Bro has , but his elder bro can solve 'his' sums or differentiate his sums with that of that kid's! ;-) "Love is the next level to Friendship"(dis 1 is a little complex to understand....hope u get it right) There is nothing wrong if ur friend becomes ur lover According to me "IF BOTH R 'VERY TRUE' IN THEIR RELATION THEY WILL GO TO THE NEXT LEVEL OR ELSE GAMEOVER" "Anything that is True will not Fail , shouldn't Fail ,... can never Fail" Hope am very clear to U ...... Block or Tackle? am on oiis...:-)
• Sri Lanka
1 Jun 07
yes i think dat been friends before becoming lovers is good coz u can understand that person better if you are a friend of her/him...