Is it OK?

@vonne28th (1494)
Philippines
June 1, 2007 7:42am CST
Is it ok for a girl to Make the First Move?
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6 responses
@happymom1 (1179)
• United States
1 Jun 07
Sometimes it is good idea to make a move first if you like somebody but be watchful that he cannot notice what you are doing. I think be friendly and do something that he likes. Observe him first before doing the move. Know all his likes and do it for him. hehehe
@vonne28th (1494)
• Philippines
2 Jun 07
It's nice that the relationship started as friends first, so that you will know his/her attitudes and likes before you start seducing. ;)
@Rohit20 (327)
• India
1 Jun 07
Why not,if girl likes a guy she should come forward ,provided she is confirmed about his nature ,attitude,body language and judge all other factors that are responsible for ones decency.... What if she doesn't say anything and it goes to long and she has to miss him..... secondly,to live with repentence in heart that, if I could initiate,,never live with that feeling.... But,one has to be careful in going first as there is always risk of being trapped... If person is know to girl about his decency in all terms and that he isn't a flirt sort ....missing a chance would be unwise decision ,,,if there is some thing in heart it ought to come out.. Over all use of mind,heart and intution weighs greatly.
@vonne28th (1494)
• Philippines
2 Jun 07
If there is no other way,maybe a girl can make her first move based upon what you have said not to miss the chance before it's over.
@smacksman (6053)
1 Jun 07
Oh yes, girls have always done that. It is just they are more subtle about it and prepare a situation where the man asks the girl out thinking that it was his idea in the first place. So, use all your feminin skills if intrigue - get friends and family to set the trap - make yourself the irresistable bait and snap, you will have snared him. But don't gloat at your success - act surprised and delighted at his idea!! haha
@vonne28th (1494)
• Philippines
1 Jun 07
I've never done any first moves to a man whom i like coz i think that it would be a turn off situation,but what a nice idea! heheheh
@rsa101 (37932)
• Philippines
1 Jun 07
I guess so if you make you moves not too callous like men do. I still get turned off usually with women who usually is too aggressive in expressing their feelings toward men. I still think that it is man's job to express his fondness to a girl not the other way around. Also girl making the first move usually are at risk getting abused especially if they find the wrong guy to impress. So I think you should be aware of this too.
@vonne28th (1494)
• Philippines
1 Jun 07
I do also believe that it is a man's job to court a woman. And that's what i'm also don't want to happen when a man would abuse the girl because the girl makes the first move to seduce the man. Thanks
@huilee (1005)
• Singapore
2 Jun 07
Well, im more of a conservative woman... So for me, i wun take the first move... But according to what i have asked many of my friends... They do thnk its fine and its pretty good to have girls making the first move... Afterall, its the 21st century... We are all modern woman... =)
• Philippines
6 Jun 07
Doesn't really matter who ever make the first move. Love knows no boundaries and that you just show love naturally. Why linger if you love him? :)