When you get frustrated....

@rangics (1335)
Philippines
June 2, 2007 4:08am CST
What is your usual reaction when you get frustrated over someone or something ? Well on my part, I just can't simply hide it! I easily get annoyed and I don't want to get in touch with people because I might say or do something that I will regret after. It's hard honestly. How about you? What's your initial reaction to this?
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• Saint Vincent And The Grenadines
17 Jun 07
well it depends on how important the issue is. When i am really frustrated about something...i try to relax and think it twice before speaking...because when i start i'm unstoppable LOL. But in general i control myself a bit.
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@rangics (1335)
• Philippines
17 Jun 07
That's a good attitude towards dealing your frustration pal. ;)
@MJLami (1173)
• United States
17 Jun 07
When I was younger I was very vocal about my frustrations. Now I'm very quiet about them, when they do occur which is much less than before and takes a whole lot more to aggravate me. I've learned you really need to know who it is you're dealing with first, not just think you do. I've been through too much crap trying to deal directly with others and had it twisted out of context against me. At this point in life if you're someone that frustrates me I don't bother. It's not worth it. You can intend to be direct and diplomatic but when you up against a mentally disturbed, dishonest person those attempts get taken out of context and become something used to deceive.
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@rangics (1335)
• Philippines
17 Jun 07
Yes that's true. Thank you pal ;)
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• China
17 Jun 07
I think i will be more powerful and get more determination to beat the frustation when i get it.That is my charator.And i am proud of it.
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@rangics (1335)
• Philippines
17 Jun 07
Good for you pal. ;) Keep it up.
@lynboobsy11 (11345)
• Philippines
17 Jun 07
My initial reaction I feel sad and It really shows in my face I can't hide it. So I go away from any one so that theu can't notice me that I was feel to cry. But after that I"ll just calm my self and face the truth, thats life not all days are lucky for me.
@rangics (1335)
• Philippines
17 Jun 07
Yes I agree. Not all days you feel good. There are just some situations in life that frustrates us and we can't stay away with it. ;)
@stella1989 (2274)
• India
17 Jun 07
Well it depends person to person actually. When I get frustrated with some one sometimes I just spit it out and sometime I go silent and quite..!! And backoff. Because in some situations its important to keep quite ..and also in some cases it important to come forward and speak up. Keeping your frustration inside can be useful and also harmful..!! So we have to take care of it when is it harmful and when is it useful. All it needs is some brain.
@rangics (1335)
• Philippines
17 Jun 07
We should learn how to deal with them. For a good outcome of course. Tnx friend.;)
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@fly_shay (333)
• Philippines
3 Jun 07
When I am frustrated over something or someone, i just kept quiet but i'll think it over whether i have to say something nasty the next tym we talk or meet or just plainly accept it...i have this realization that before I'll immediately cry when i'm frustrated but now, i think i'm already a fighter when it comes to these things. Is this some kind of acquired or developed??
@rangics (1335)
• Philippines
7 Jun 07
It's a gift! :) Thanks fly_shay!
@lkbooi (16100)
• Malaysia
2 Jun 07
When become older I’m not so easy to get annoyed when get frustrated somebody. I’ll try to console myself as not to take thing so seriously. In this way I could lighten my mental burden to certain extend. I usually relax myself by having a cup of coffee and listening to classical music. I‘ll soon calm myself down to a peaceful stage and by this way I could restrict myself from any undesirable moves consequently.
@rangics (1335)
• Philippines
3 Jun 07
Good for you friend. I hope I could be like you too.. ;)
• Sri Lanka
2 Jun 07
i will come clean... i will go straight to dat person and make things clear.. then it'll be over.. once and for all
@rangics (1335)
• Philippines
3 Jun 07
o-huh..staright to the point there..good. At least you don't let yourself keep on hanging...;)
@randy88 (685)
• Indonesia
2 Jun 07
Is I got it, I want to speak loudly, I can't hide it
@rangics (1335)
• Philippines
2 Jun 07
Thanks for sharing friend. ;)
• Philippines
2 Jun 07
Im just quiet and i dont wanna talk to anybody and i dont want anybody to talk to me and ask me for something. I just wanna be alone whenever im frustrated.
@rangics (1335)
• Philippines
2 Jun 07
I do the same way. Tnx ;)
@miaolin (397)
• China
2 Jun 07
I also so easily get annoyed when I get furstrated.But I never show them out or show them out slightly.I will tell it to my best friend and ask her to help me,or I write it in my diary to realise my anger and uncomfort.In short,I won't affect others because of the frustration.
@rangics (1335)
• Philippines
2 Jun 07
I sometimes put it into writng like you do to ease the pain. Thanks pal ;)