marriage for convinience....

United States
June 2, 2007 6:36am CST
question: would you ever marry for convience??? if no why? if yes? are you gonna do it for money or just to help a friend?
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4 responses
@jennybianca (12912)
• Australia
4 Jun 07
I am sure that I wouldn't be able to marry for convenience, ever. How could I live with a person I was only "convenient" with? How could I lie in the same bed, with someone I was "convenioent" with? Let alone do it...
@jennybianca (12912)
• Australia
4 Jun 07
No, I wouldn't. There are a lot of comlications in doing this. Anyway, in Australia, they are trying to cut down on this.
• United States
4 Jun 07
i see....thank for sharing your opinion on this...
• United States
4 Jun 07
im sorry i think i got you confused. let me try a scenario: let say you have a friend who needs to have a visa to stay in the u.s, he asked if you can marry him and divorce him after the visa has been issued, will you do it?
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@pinks0da (328)
• Philippines
2 Jun 07
Definitely NO, because in the first place its not right to tie yourself to someone u have no feelings at all. It's like living in lies. Well, that's how I see it. But I have nothing against people who favors marriage for convenience sake. We all have our reasons and we should respect that. :)
• United States
2 Jun 07
that is so true. But what if youre the one who is in neeed to marry a person for your convenience...would you consider it?
@pinks0da (328)
• Philippines
2 Jun 07
That's not gonna be an option if im badly in need of life's convenience. Hehehehe.. you see I am a woman with a strong personality and with pride, and I live to my principle not to rely on men too much for my needs. :). We are not called women for nothing :)
• United States
4 Jun 07
good for you....thank u for sharing your opinion.
@banta78 (4326)
• India
4 Jun 07
NO never. I don't believe in marrying for convience. I beleive that one should marry only the person one really loves and cares for with whom one has mutual trust, love, understanding and respect.
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• United States
4 Jun 07
i agree.... love should always be the basis of getting into marriage. thank u for sharing your opinion.
• Philippines
4 Jun 07
NO for it. to start with, i don't like the thought of it. it makes one person too materialistic if all s/he wants is to have a better future. it is just too difficult to risk your life and future for it. if it is for i friend, i'd find some ways to help him/her but not to the point that i will sacrifice what i have now.
• United States
4 Jun 07
what if citizenship is involve....the person is willing to pay you to marry him so he could stay in your country? will you do it?