Guys...why?

Poor you. I hope those who read this discussion will try to pm you for a date. Who wouldn't want to date a young and skinny ladies. Men will treat them as trophy catch which they can parade in from of his buddies. Men wouldn't want to be seen with a 'potato' even how young she may be.

LoL I know exactly what you are saying! I am 31 and had to go online to try and find someone! You go to the dating sites you will see most of them post the skinny people first before the average normal woman!!! Have you ever seen a fat chick on one of their adds........ nope!! but I have a solution for ya hon i found this site ..... they have different areas you can join to find love... no i am not one to normally tell someone this is the way to go but this site actually is a good one that is TOTALLY FREE!! I go to the www.largepassions.com for bigger girls but they have several groups for divorced, single parents, professionals, ..... ect ect!!! But as for why men go for the astetically perfect person it is a society based rule! If they want to be considered cool they date them.... its ingrained from when they are kids that skinny and beautiful is the way to go!!! I wish you the best of luck leeesa! Hopefully you will find your true hearts desire!

lol! I completely understand where you are coming from. I am 23 with a 25 year old and have recently been noticing his interactions with 18 and 19 year old girls. What is it with that? I just dont know.