Can I use Java for high-volume traffic Web site like a bidding Web site?

Yes. You definitely can use Java for a high-volume web site. You can also use C# or any of the languages you have listed in your question. Java's reputation for being slow comes from fat/thick client applications - not web applications. The performance of an application often has to do with it's implementation. You can write slow web applications in any language as well as write fast applications in those same languages. Good design and implementation is the main key to performance, not the language.