Do you still want guys to pay for you on dates?

First dates? Guys must pay for the date. For the subsequent dates, girls must initiate in sharing the bill if not paying the full bill. Nowadays, there's no question of who must pay for the bills, but for guys, it is improper if they let their girls to pay the bills more often and during their first dates.

For first date, I always insisted to pay my share.. dont want to feel obligated with the guy!! When I think that our relationship might deepen thats when I let the guy pay the bill... hehehe

If dating is fixed by man then it is his responsibility to pay first. Sometime woman is first in dating in such case woman should pay the bill. If dating is frequently then both should bear depending upon the financial condition. This problem can be solved mutually. It depends on the gravity of relationship. There should be two way payment system. Sometime girl, sometime boy. The amount of bill may differ each time. I think after some time, this settles automatically.

at times, yes. i like the guy to pay especially if it is the first date and when he was the one who invited me out. i was used to the concept of fair share in dating. as much as possible, i make sure to pay half of our spendings. i insists that i give my share or else, i won't go out with him anymore :p (doesn't work at times). but i really wish that the guy won't shoulder all the expenses.

My boyfriend and I sometimes shared our bills when dated,but of course,oftentimes he must be the one to pay the bills coz he was the one who courted me before and he must face the consequences. But sometimes we go out along the beach and start a sweet conversation under the moonlight. It isn't necessarily that guys should look for any restaurants or expensive dates to make girls more attracted to them. There are any other ways aside from that.