Would you go for someone you're not physical attracted to?

Philippines
June 4, 2007 9:09pm CST
Physical looks fade away with time, but the goodness of the heart will always remain.
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• United States
5 Jun 07
yes, and i did. i even married him. even though i didnt find him physically attractive, i loved the way he made me feel when he was with me. he made me feel so special and loved. he would go out of his way to show me a good time. i knew he loved me. i didnt know it at the time, but i was changing him. he had always been a "bad boy" ( i didnt know this til after a few years of dating) but then he told me that if it wasnt for me, he thought he might have had such a different life. that lit me up. for a little while i thought it was just a line, but then i found out that it was true when his own mom told me that he was a differnt person with me in his life. in the very start, i didnt care that i wasnt physically attracted to him, it was her personality that drew me in. now, 8 years later, i am still very in love with him, and its not because of his looks! as you said, looks fade :) its that now i see how much heart he has, and boy does he love his 2 babies!!!
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• Philippines
5 Jun 07
i admired your comment a lot. and i think you're a very lucky that you have somebody that loves you so much.
• United States
5 Jun 07
I think that it is true that physical looks fade away and the heart always remains. However, there generally is some aspect however small and minute to most naked eyes that you may find attractive about someone. Personality has a huge play in who you decide to be with or not. But physical plays a key part in the game of attraction. We can't lie.
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• United States
5 Jun 07
oh yes -I was a little shallow in my youth. I passed guys up because of appearance. Which is ironic because I was only cute in the "oh you are so cute" kind of way. I was never the hot chick. Sometimes, I am embarrassed to say ,if they called me on that I fell completely for them and after a while found them attractive. If you know what I mean.
@magikrose (5423)
• United States
5 Jun 07
I was never physically attracted to my husband. It was his heart that attracted me to him. My husband was one of the geeky looking not so bright guys back in school but once I got to know him I got to love his heart. We are celebrating 7yrs of marriage this Aug 2007.
• Philippines
5 Jun 07
congratulations. =D im hapy for both of you.
@vonne28th (1494)
• Philippines
5 Jun 07
It was Valentines Day when my friend (who was also my crush) asked me to date his friend coz he said,his friend has a big crush on me. I really felt hurt coz of course,i want him to be my date on that day instead of the other,but because i can't say 'no' to him..i accepted the invitation. It is not really easy to deal or date with any one whom you are not attracted to.
• Canada
5 Jun 07
Of course I would!!! I have noticed that the more I love someone, the more I am attracted to them, in every way possible. If someone who is physically appealing to most turns out to be a total idiot, suddenly they don't look so good anymore. If an average or less than average man is gentle and kind, he will be the most gorgeous man who ever existed.