how many friends do u have
By ranikrishnan
@ranikrishnan (1683)
India
11 responses
@yanjiaren (9031)
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5 Jun 07
After God and my Family, especially my husband I have two other best friends..Most of my other friends are here on Mylot. I used to move around a lot and a few friends I had while I was married to my ex after we split up went their own way because they were just family friends as we were a couple they didn't want to mix with us when we divorced, I find that kind of strange because it is in difficult situations that you know who your friends are. My Mother always used to say they only would come to our house for the food, as I was treated more like a servant than a wife lol.
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@ranikrishnan (1683)
• India
5 Jun 07
its har to accept facts like these. true many people just flk around for food and money. once they know u're done with they just disappear for good. but how can they forget the hands tht served them good food, do u think they can foregt it for life.
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@yanjiaren (9031)
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5 Jun 07
Probably lol, they go and find someone else they can feed off from..I don't mind cooking and being there, just it feels sad being used and when I was penniless and homeless, no one was there for me..
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@yanjiaren (9031)
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5 Jun 07
That's a great proverb. I love spiritual sayings from every where I am given them. I like your yin yang thin gy too..check out my profile I have a really colourful one in there I think you will like it..also designed a flag for my husband..
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@marciascott (25529)
• United States
5 Jun 07
I had 422 friends they are not active though I might hear from about 100 of them. Some people have more that which doesn't make any since.
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@marciascott (25529)
• United States
6 Jun 07
What are you talking about? I don't understand I do have 3 friends that I even email, when not on mMylot and talking to them on the phone, so What are you saying?
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@ranikrishnan (1683)
• India
6 Jun 07
they arent friends then maybe associates. its a pity u cant even pick one out of the 400 odd friends of urs
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@ranikrishnan (1683)
• India
5 Jun 07
good for you, i too have friends but we all live far away and talk once in a while. hopeu accept me as ur friend. adding u.
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@celestemichelle (429)
• United States
5 Jun 07
Other than my extended family and husband, I have three friends that I would call on in any situation.
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@ranikrishnan (1683)
• India
5 Jun 07
the trust you have for them is great, as u take about them in lieu with ur family memebers. u respect friendship i say. good luck abd regards to u and friends and family
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@cecillecarmela (3818)
• Philippines
5 Jun 07
I have a huge circle of friends, but when it comes to people I trust most and do the same thing to me, I guess it would narrow down into FOUR. Although I can talk about myself freely to my other close friends, my relationship with these four are different. We know each other's deepest darkest secrets, we often contradict ideas but still end up being friends. :D Me and my relationship with those four are different co'z we all have different personalities, but in the end, we still understand each other. We have already learned how to adjust on each other's differences and we accept, trust, respect and love each other that's why there's no problem :D
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@ranikrishnan (1683)
• India
6 Jun 07
diversity sure ends up in a good unity even i have friends from all cultures and we blend very well
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@try32ends (207)
• India
5 Jun 07
The very definition of friendship requires us to call someone a friend only if he/she stands alongside us at all times. I, for one, have been blessed with really good friends, the true ones, since school, and i can proudly and safely aver that all of them will stand by me in my time of need. If a count is what you are looking for then i must say that it will be around 15.
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@ranikrishnan (1683)
• India
5 Jun 07
u have given a good defination to friendship so has added u as my friend hope u make ur list 16 by taking me as ur fiend too
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@ranjeetkolarkar (1595)
• India
7 Jun 07
i have five friends who are my true friends and to whom i look upon at the time of despair as well as i share all my happiness with them.
@ranikrishnan (1683)
• India
7 Jun 07
see u r able to say in an instant tht u have five friends without another thought., their names should just flash thru if they are ur true friends
@sumofalltears (3988)
• United States
5 Jun 07
I have two....I would give my right arm for either of them and they would do the same for me. I trust both with my life and they trust me. I have many acquaintences but they are not the same as true blooded friends.
@ranikrishnan (1683)
• India
6 Jun 07
true acquaitances are every where but they cannot be called or termed as friends.
@wonderful1 (2075)
• China
7 Jun 07
I have only one real friend. She is very mild girl and she never spend money on some unnecessary things. But when I need some money, she can lend me at once.
Frankly, I don't what is a real friend. I think I demand too much for a real friend before. She is saving girl and she can lend me money without hesitate, so I think she is my real friend, don't you think so?
How do you think about real friend? What is your standard?
@ranikrishnan (1683)
• India
7 Jun 07
the point is are u always returning the money u got from her. if not them ur manipulating her friendship and the the trust she has for u. friendship based on giving and taking money has never lasted.sorry to say tht sooner or later indifferences set in. would u be taking of her if she had refuses money. anyway see her as a person her good nature. friends should give u valuable advice and set u right when u faulter and share the joys and sorrow with u. if there a person whom u can without a second thought contact to tell when u get 100$ in mylot then thts ur real friend.why wait till 100, lets make just 10 be ause even tht is going to take a lifetime.
@ranikrishnan (1683)
• India
7 Jun 07
is the fouth friend me. i have taken you as my best friend, hope u'll too.
