how long will you get married after you met your honey?

China
June 5, 2007 3:30am CST
i wonder this question all the time, how many years after you met will you get married ?3years or one month ?i think everyone will have a different idea with this question.in my opinion, 3or 4 years is enough to understand each other and get married.give me some idea of yours.come on ~~~~waiting 4 you
4 responses
@marinarovi (1318)
• Argentina
6 Jun 07
It's not the time, it's the feeling, and the place you're standing in your life. When I was younger I had a boyfriend for 5 years, we practically did the whole university course together, but getting married was a far future plan, for after university, after getting a nice job, etc. Now we're not together anymore, and I'm dating some one new. I met him on new year's and we've been together since then. We're so madly in love that I could marry him tomorrow (I know, it really soon, so I won't do it) but I guess that is just because the feeling is a lot stronger, and beacuse I'm 8 years older, and I have a steady job, bla bla bla. Soi i'm quite a different person from the college girl I used to be. Anyway, I'm not marrying anyone any time soon.
• China
7 Jun 07
you are funny. thanx for your sharing. i am falling in love with a boy since two yeard ago. in the very begining i don't like him. but now i am mad about him. we are exactly planing our future now and we are willing to get married. we are the only one of each other.he is going to study in Shanghai, and i will quit my job and follow him.
• Argentina
7 Jun 07
That is so sweet!! Good luck, to both of you!!
@randy88 (685)
• Indonesia
5 Jun 07
Maybe about 4 year is th time to know each other
• China
6 Jun 07
thanx for your sharing.~~~~
• Philippines
5 Jun 07
My husband and I is having our relationship for five years before we married. But though it came this far we still have some of our indifferences and imperfections. I think the time that you meet and lenght of time is not a good basis for making a good marriage. Even if the time is just short but you love each other that much and willing to spend for the rest of your lives together then your marriage will be a succcess.
• China
6 Jun 07
yes love is the most important factor in marriage. but marriage should be a serious thing .
@huilee (1010)
• Singapore
5 Jun 07
I guess this question is pretty vague.. Sometimes its not how long that we gauge... ts the feeling... We can be together for ten years and if theres no urget o get married... Then why get marrid... WE can noe each other for a day... But if we feel that its more then enough, why not? Guess its alays the feeling that counts... =)
• China
6 Jun 07
yes,it is pretty vague. but in the traditional Chinese thoughts,people should spend more time to know each other for marriage.maybe sometimes it depends on the situation.