how do u react to jealous relatives

@henazea (313)
Kuwait
June 5, 2007 3:34am CST
I have a few jealous relative whose only business in life is to have a watch over anything and everything that we do..they rejoice at our shortcomings and failures and grieve at our happiness..I don't know if this sounds ridiculous but sometimes I feel we r just jinxed..how do u handle such relatives??
5 responses
@syndhujaa (252)
• India
18 Jun 07
Yup..I completely agree with you..even i have some relatives like that..lemme tell you the best way is to ignore them..we should be always away from them..but that doesnt mean to cut our relationship because they are relatives but we should not be very close to them coz they will get more and more jealous of us..those kind of people want that only they should be on top always..if we come up in life..they will not like it and start telling bad about us on our back..we should completely avoid these kinda people..they are of no use to us..so..better stay away from them..!!!
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@henazea (313)
• Kuwait
18 Jun 07
yeah u r very right..thanx for sharing ur views..
• India
16 Jun 07
just ignore them and go on with ur business.
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@henazea (313)
• Kuwait
16 Jun 07
thanx basant..
@huilee (1005)
• Singapore
5 Jun 07
Yah, i do noe of such friends instead of relatives too... They are just so jeaalous.. Of everything... Jealous of me and my guy... I mean cant they get a llife? But yah.. They are always waiting to catch my misery... And trying to pretend to be kind and nice... That sorta rubbish... I guess we just have to ignore such people.. Just smile and walk away... No use doing something silly and think they will forget about doing childish things... nNope... It might even worsen situations ya...
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@henazea (313)
• Kuwait
5 Jun 07
yeah I know wot u mean and thts so mean..I do try to smile at them and act as if it doesnt touch me u know..but they never tire sadly..anyways but for how long..
@kawaii24 (520)
• Australia
5 Jun 07
i dont speak with them. In fact, I will do everything to make them more jelous of me lol... Just dont let them bother you...
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@henazea (313)
• Kuwait
5 Jun 07
yeah u r right..I'd too love to do tat..but sometimes it becomes a little difficult to avoid them..
• Canada
4 Jun 09
I totally feel for you. I am shy, soft spoken and I have two jealous relatives who are about 20 or 30 years older than me -and I am 35! They have gossiped and slandered my name and I try ignore it. The best advice I can give you is to give yourself some space between you and them. If they make you uncomfortable, avoid them and continue your life. Life's too short to play these destructive ridiculous games. Besides, you deserve better. Now go and cheer up. We're cheering for you. Hugs, In Montreal, Canada
• Sudan
19 Aug 09
just ignore that type of person, continue with everything you are doing. carol