Is it right for a single women and a married man.........

@magikrose (5432)
United States
June 5, 2007 8:46am CST
to sleep in the same bed, yet they are claiming that nothing is going on between them. I know someone who is allowing a friend stay with her because he is having trust issues with his wife. Both him and his wife cheated on eachother and I guess they are going through a trial seperation. Now She is claiming that she is sleeping on the couch and she is allowing him to sleep on her bed. Personally I know her betterthan that and I know him better than that. I have been friends with both long enough. I just dont think it is right in my opnion. He should be sleeping on the couch and she should be sleeping in her own bed alone. What do you think?
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• United States
5 Jun 07
your friends are old enough to know the diffrence between right and wrong. if she wants to give her friend her bed to sleep in then that is up to her. if she says that nothing is going on between them then why cant you believe her? do you have proof that they are sleeping in the same bed? until you know the truth do not judge a book by its cover until you know the truth. who knows mabye their are more things going on between the married man and his wife than you know. let me ask you this do you think it is right to do something with someone while someones spouse and children are a sleep in the next room? i know someone who did do that and when confronted they both denny it and lie about it. mabye the people that you are talkling about where open and honest with their spouse and that is the reason why he is not liveing with his wife. like i said before do not think the worst is happening until you know the truth of what is really going on behind her closed doors.
@magikrose (5432)
• United States
5 Jun 07
Granted they may be telling the truth the thing is she clearly told me how she feels about this man and I cant blame her for feeling the way she does considering they had a relationship in the past. Plus she told me that they had done something together which was wrong and I know she feels guilty about it. The thing that I am concerned about the most is that she has kids who are getting attached to this guy and I would hate to see the kids get hurt not to mentone my friend if things work out between him and his wife. It has nothing to do with not believing them it has to do with not wanting them to get hurt AGAIN like they did in the past.
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@sarah22 (3980)
• United States
5 Jun 07
yes, sounds fishy. he should be on the couch.
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@AdamMax (260)
• United States
5 Jun 07
He needs to go home or somewhere else. Do they think you fell off the turnip truck yesterday? No wonder his marriage is in trouble.
• United States
11 Jun 07
Trial seperation and staying with a single woman. Uh huh. He should stay with relatives.
@Lydia1901 (16353)
• United States
9 Jun 07
Obviously, something is going on between those two and what is she still doing there if they are going through separation trial? Don't people usually spend times away from each other when that happens? If it was me, I would never allow anything like that to happen in my house at all.