Self Help is best help - Do you belive?
By ibsnet
@ibsnet (1268)
India
June 5, 2007 2:07pm CST
I very much believe that Self help is best help. I have practically faced situations where I trusted somebody else very nearer to me for any help and he/she may have done it but not completed or not at all done the work giving excuses. I, therefore, now try to solve many possible things by my own not depending on other's help. Though this depends on situations, but there are many such happenings in our day to day life that we can help ourselves if we try a bit.
What you do in such cases? Self help or other's help.
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5 responses
@andrejuly84 (1047)
• Romania
2 Jul 07
i agree with you.noone can understand u better than u do,noone can do a thing for u better than you do.so trust yourself cause your resources are the best choice on every situation.cause every person first sees her interest and if remains would help you but not in the same measure as a thing done of you
@idrisaudu (2)
• Israel
9 Jun 07
i believe in it cuz i've been in this condition too were by i find help from the friends i trusted,but at the end i am the one helping my self
@ranjeetkolarkar (1595)
• India
7 Jun 07
that is absolutely true.
unless one puts in one's efforts, things are not going to move in his/her favour.
@cdparazo (5765)
• Philippines
6 Jun 07
I believe in that too. I was once asked by my teacher if I could name 3 people whom I could turn to whenever I have a problem and I answered, myself, my parents, my sister. My teacher said that he is happy with my answer because it means that we are sufficient unto ourselves if we could turn to ourselves for comfort and solution in times of trouble.
@angela2006 (1845)
• China
6 Jun 07
I can not agree more with you!though we all have friends,and they can help us through difficulties.but I think they can not have time always,sometimes they are so busy that they can not spare time to help us.I do not mean others are not dependable,I just want to say,it is ourselves that will always help us.
