do you show your man that you care?

I think there is a difference between pampering someone and showing them that you care. For instance, while I sometimes buy little treats or do nice things for my boyfriend from time to time, I also make an effort to show him how much I appreciate him on a daily basis. For instance, it's the little things he seems to like about me. I always smile and greet him when he walks into the room I'm in, I thank him whenever he does nice things for me, and I ask his opinion on things because I want to show him that I like having him involved in my life. I'm sure that a lot of men enjoy being pampered, but I also think that there are men out there that are prefectly content just knowing that their significant other cares about them and is genuinely happy to have them around.

I think it's important to show your spouse or significant other how much you care... and men seem to really enjoy the attention, every bit as much as women do. I don't buy my husband things very often (mainly because I hate to shop, so I don't do it much lol) but I really like to just give him random hugs or compliments here and there (both make him smile) and I usually jot down a quick note that goes into his lunch bag. I guess that sounds mushy to some people but he told me that it makes him feel really good, when he's exhausted or annoyed at work, to sit down at break time and find a good thought or a smile from me. Doesn't take a lot of time, money or energy to show someone that you care... but the return on the investment is SO worth it :)

well, its subjective n differs from person to person. i, personally, make it a point to tell my boyfriend how much i love him everyday. altho he's never asked me to do stuff like this for him, i think all guys like the attention. n i love buying things for him. :D so yea, i like pampering my boyfriend.

Depends really to the guy, but mostly guys also need to be pampered.. well at least show them that you care, though you're not that affectionate but hey, you do have to make him happy or somewhat feel mushy sometimes. most guys love that. :)