Do younger moms think they're better than older moms?
@beautyqueen26 (16030)
United States
June 6, 2007 1:24pm CST
I read an article recently in the Baby Talk magazine about new moms versus older moms.
And, I was surprised to learn that most of the younger moms interviewed (in their late teens and early 20's) felt that they are better at parenting than women who waited to have their children until they were older.
This surprised me, because I had my daughter in my early 30's and thought that I was one of the young moms.
Don't get me wrong, if I could have had her ten years earlier, I would have. It just didn't work out that way.
But, I think things worked out perfectly. Ten years ago, I was not a patient person. But, now I've got all the patience in the world.
I couldn't believe the way these younger moms were judging older moms, saying things like how it wasn't fair that we have children at all, because we'd be too old to take care of the kids by the time we hit our fourties.
That's completely bogus. In my opinion, a woman can be a good parent at any age, young or old, as long as she has a loving and compassionate heart and desire to be a mom.
Some of the women interviewed claimed that they had been discriminated against by younger moms because they had their kids late in life.
Have you experienced that, too?
I just don't understand this. Why can't moms of all ages pull together on raising our children and be friends and not enemies?
Don't we have enough obstacles placed in our way by society and men, as is. Why must we start a war
over something so trivial as age differences?
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5 responses
@joey_matthews (8354)
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8 Jun 07
I think generally older people are those who think they're better, I don't and have never seen a young mum or father for that matter do anything like that.
I have came across many older parents who are stuck up with how they think they're better.
Fact is it doesn't matter, the child is the important thing and I'll do anything for my son. This should be the only settlement when people go around.
People should be proud of being a great parents, not a show off. (funny most show off's aren't good parents) Just look at the McCann family.
Kudos,
~Joey
@jolenegreen (1209)
• United States
8 Jun 07
I think it is very rude for theese young girls to judge older women the way they do. I dont think it should matter how old you are...just if you have the responsability to handle a child or not. Like you said...if things dont work out while you are young...why give up? I think that every mother deserves the chance....and not just to give up becuase your getting old. Stupid if u ask me, LOL.
@magnet (2087)
• United States
6 Jun 07
I don't think so. I was 26 having my first child and 29 having my second. I've never felt like my younger friends thought they were better. I really don't care what other people think anyway. Anyhow when I was in my late teens and early 20's I did not want children, shoot I wanted to be free to date and have a good time without kids.
@mykmari_08 (2464)
• Philippines
7 Jun 07
I was 27 when I got married but only got pregnant two years later. I don't think that younger moms feel they're better at parenting than older moms. In fact, some young moms I know, still depend and ask older moms for issues like feeding, child illnesses, tantrums, child language, and other issues. What older moms gain with age is their wisdom and experience, which obviously, the younger moms or the new moms still don't have, along with patience.
@tredale (1309)
• Australia
7 Jun 07
I think this is a stupid thing to say, I was a young mum and felt inferiour to older mums, I was sixteen and now looking back on it didnt know a thing about the world. I agree now at 31 Im a much better person and have more patience and I think would much better with babies than what I was then. I cant talk for all people but my experience is all I know and think if I could of had my kids later I would have.






