would you go out with your guy friend even if he has a girlfriend?

Philippines
June 7, 2007 12:00am CST
well, if it's just a coffee or drink, sure! Actually anything goes, lunch, dinner, study work, whatever as long as you know and recognize that he's just a GUY friend. And also you have to respect yourself and especially your guy friend and his relationship.
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14 responses
10 Jun 07
the thing i dont get is i have a friend who is a girl and every time i get into a relationship she gets jealous and dosnt like my girl friend even if my girl friend really makes the effort with her , and when i even mention her boy friend in a negative way she would be like its none of your buisness im not your girlfriend wtf is that all about
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• Philippines
12 Jun 07
are you a boy porkpie? if you are, chances are this girl has been nurturing some feelings for you all these years! observe her will and you will find it out. you will discover for yourself that i am telling you the truth. i know the ways of women for i am a woman, tool. i also know the ways of men because, i used to have a lot of men friends before. this is because, in engineering schools, mostly men are teh ones around there. i mean among the circle of civil engineers, there is about only one woman to a dozen men.
• Malaysia
12 Jun 07
sounds like your friend definitely has the hots for you porkpie182~! i'm a woman, so i should know. it sounds like to me that your friend thinks she's the best candidate for you. maybe she think all your girlfriends are just not right for you, since she thinks she knows you the best. i recommend you have a chat with her about this. love might just be in front of you all along.. she probably doesn't even love her boyfriend..
@el_jeffo (750)
• Philippines
7 Jun 07
Yeah sure why not, I don't see a problem with it. Maybe because I'm a guy D:
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• Philippines
8 Jun 07
hahaha . . nice one DUDE ! ! lolz
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• Philippines
7 Jun 07
why not.... if the guy is already my fren long before her girlfren then the grl shud i guess try to understand that we are just frens and nothing more....
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• Philippines
8 Jun 07
:) fact is you can't just limit yourself to just girls right?! you could still see your guy friends . . since your just friends nothing more :)
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@vonne28th (1494)
• Philippines
7 Jun 07
It happend to me once before,but before i accepted it,i asked my boyfriend's permission. And it's ok with him. I don't want to destroy any kind of relationship depending on that matter,so i will make sure also that he asked permission from his girl.
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• Philippines
8 Jun 07
its not ur fault your pretty :P
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@kawaii24 (520)
• Australia
8 Jun 07
why not...its not as if am stealing him or something..as long as he is my friend then thats perfectly okay :)
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12 Jun 07
an update on this one my friend is a heartless B*stard he slept with my girl friend who and im still in love with and he knew full well what he was doing he saw her out on a friends birthday and said he was looking after her and it turned out that he took her home and slept with her and he is still denying it i want to punch his lights out what the hell should i do now? my girl friend said she did stay there and just kissed him but every time i ask her about it she has that nervous laughter that people have when you confront them
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@Sir_bobby88 (8231)
• Singapore
9 Jun 07
Well no because i know i will rip my rivals into pieces yea lol
• Philippines
9 Jun 07
uh oh thats so cruel :( hehe
• Philippines
12 Jun 07
if it is a casual going out, of course i will. friends do that regardless of their sexes. the girlfriend can see for herself that there is nothing unusual about our relationship as it is being done in the light where everyone can see. if the girlfriend gets jealous without reason, then that only shows what kind of a woman she is. i don't believe that men will ever love to have naggers for their wives. this guy friend and i, i will make sure that there will be nothing more to our relationship other than true friendship. i can truly say this because i have had some guy friends before and it never got anywhere beyond that level.
• Guam
8 Jun 07
oh yeah.. but no malice at all
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@tala91285 (1074)
• Philippines
7 Jun 07
Most of my friends are guys, and one of them is a really close friend. We live quite close to each other so we often meet up in the mall near our place and just hang out the whole day and then have dinner with my family. We're both in a relationship but our partners respect the fact that we've been friends way before we each got into a relationship so it's cool with them ^_^
• Philippines
8 Jun 07
thats nice . . :) respect.
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@mean_queen (1713)
• Malaysia
12 Jun 07
Of course~! No problem with goin out with a guy friend~! If the girlfriend does get jealous, well that's his responsibility to deal with his girlfriend. All I know is that I'm honest about our friendship and I don't think I'll stop it over some jealous girlfriend. But of course, I would definitely choose to be friends with his girlfriend too so there isn't any misunderstanding and complications going on.
@gr8life (6251)
• Malaysia
14 Jun 07
Yes, I would. Sure it is not a big problem. But I will try to avoid going out with him only or ask him to bring his girlfriend too. Mostly, girls will feel threaten if they know their boyfriend goes out with another girl though she is just a good friend. I will limit myself and keep my distance from my guy friend so that we will not end up in a wild and liar rumors about us and hurt the other party's feelings.
@devilinu (105)
• India
9 Jun 07
never shud pose a problem.....i wudnt mind if my girl friend went out on a movie too...i mean there shud b trust right...plus y hover over like a pryin vulture....rather giv her sum space ....trust is the imp factor..but if i know that guy to b not to b good on intention...i'll ask her not too...but let her make the final choice herself... BF's shud b BF's....not try to b their father!!
• United States
9 Jun 07
I would only as a friend, but if he had feelings for me I wouldn't go, becuase that would complicate his relationship.