I lost both my parents to cancer, are you ?
By mamacathie
@mamacathie (3928)
United States
June 7, 2007 11:08am CST
going thru this with your parents right now? If so I am here to help you. I lost my dad to cancer but he was too ill for them to even diagnose which type or how many different types he had. I lost my mama to a brain tumor that was Stage 4, the most agressive of the agressive. Both of these were so bad but God saw fit to take both of them before they suffered and I thank God so much for that. Are you going thru a situation like this? If you are, I am here to talk to you and to help you throught it. I am not saying I have all the answers but I have been through it and God wants me to offer anyone that wants or needs help in this area to help them. Please feel free to share with me or pm me. You can also visit my blog that is listed on my profile. God bless you.
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@mamacathie (3928)
• United States
7 Jun 07
Magica, sometimes those hugs are the best thing and exactly what we need. We don't have to have words for everything, just knowing people care by giving a hug is sufficient. God bless you and if you ever need to talk I am here for you.
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@mamacathie (3928)
• United States
7 Jun 07
And I didn't even say thank you, Magica. Thanks for the hug, I really felt it.
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@psyche49f (2502)
• Philippines
16 Jun 07
You're really one brave woman, mamacathie...your sharing will really help a lot those who are suffering or are going through the same situation. I can relate with your ordeal...I lost my brother to lung cancer two years ago...he was still too young to die. I know the pain of losing our loved ones. God bless you for sharing your pain experience to others...
@mamacathie (3928)
• United States
16 Jun 07
Awww! Psyche, those words of encouragement were so sweet. I am so sorry for your loss of your brother. I don't feel I am brave, I just want to help others that are going through what I am going through. God bless you.
@ranjeetkolarkar (1595)
• India
21 Jun 07
i lost both my parents, but both were not the victims of cancer.
i lost my mother on account of cancer while my father was a victim of heart disease.
@melissa911 (92)
• United States
11 Jun 07
I lost my mother back in December to a Brain Tumor, She was young, She was sick and fought for 5 years before giving in. She was very strong the entire time. I miss her greatly. Her birthday was saturday. I have not been to my mothers grave since I buried her. I dont know why I know it sounds horrible but I cant bring myself to go back there where she is buried. I guess its just too sad of a reminder that she is no longer here. Ifeel its easier just to remember her the way she was. But i would appreciate any advise on how you dealt with your parents passing.
@mamacathie (3928)
• United States
15 Jun 07
Melissa, it is so hard to lose our parents. I am so sorry for your loss of your mom. I have only been to the graveyard once since the day she was buried. I agree it is so hard to visit there. I feel I don't have to go where her "tent" or old body is buried. She is still with me here in my memories and heart and mind and I can talk to her anytime I want to. I can suggest talking to her as much as you want to just as if she was there by your side. Cry all you need to. Crying is such a healing. I am here for you with any questions or even if you need to just cry and talk. I am here for you. Just don't give up, keep going. God bless you.
