Are man jealouse after his wife have a baby, and don t pay attention to much him

@al87exa (720)
Romania
June 7, 2007 9:00pm CST
When in a family apair a new child, man are jealouse because thay must give a love ratio for children too. Are man jealouse because woman is more gentel with new baby?Can be this a confict in a family?
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@rapolu_cs (1184)
• India
8 Jun 07
Yes it is likely to happen between every couple after having the first baby and in very cases we see it in negative progress if at all the male spouse is understandable and with utmos patience. I too had it expierenced it and all we need is the just lots of patience to face this situarion and has to wait till the time comes which make evry problem to be settled in the better way. All the best and have a best time.
@cherriemae (3374)
• Philippines
8 Jun 07
i don't think so..because husbands are really wanted to have a child..most of daddies specially when the first baby is a boy, they are more excited that there wives..of course, daddies would understand that babies really needs more attention because their still small and very fragile..but if the husband really act this way, that he will feel jealous with her baby, surely it could give a big conflict in the family..this husband has no love for the family..
@onabreak2 (1161)
• United States
8 Jun 07
Not if they are real men. Only men who are uncertain of themselves or immature types. A real man would not act that way. It is very childish and they are not ready for a family if they act that way.
@aprilsong (1886)
• China
8 Jun 07
Yes,this is true.You know,new baby will take mother's time and love away from the man.So woman just has a baby will transfer most of her love on her husband to the new baby. I think men should understand their wives.And try their best to do more housework and take care of the baby.Only in such a way,can their wives spare some time and love on them.
• United States
8 Jun 07
Yes I think men do get jealous. A baby is alot of work and I dont think they realize that. I think sometimes maybe the women dont realize that either. Men are by nature needy, whether they like to admit it or not, its true. I think if you can include daddy in the care of the baby, nurturing, feeding, bathing etc, they wont feel so left out. It worked well for my husband
@tamskie (388)
• Philippines
8 Jun 07
When there is not "true relationship" and understanding it happens.