Will u marry a poor guy?

China
June 7, 2007 10:16pm CST
A girl once said to me , she'll never marry a poor boy. She raised a lot of reasons as follows. The main idea is that all men r alike. They love beautiful girls. The rich have their economy basis to flatter the beauty. And that makes him surrounded by the beauty. The poor wanna to have a lot of beauty ,but they have not enough money. If u married a poor guy under great pressure ,once he becomes rich in several years, he will regard u as ugly old woman and would trend to the younger beauties. Since the rich and the poor would both love young beauty, why do u insist on loving the poor? What do u think of her attitude?
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4 responses
@happymom1 (1179)
• United States
8 Jun 07
I think it depend upon the person. I married a poor guy but have a very rich heart.
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• China
8 Jun 07
U'r lucky.
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@beauty_ph (2749)
• Philippines
9 Jun 07
Definitely I would marry the guy whom I truly love and is the one-great-love I can find. A definition of "poor" which means no property ownership, I will go for that guy still. He can work hard to become rich in the future for his famiy and specially for the bright future of the children.
• China
9 Jun 07
Turely love? He must have something to attract u. Maybe his wide knowledge.Maybe his kind heart.Maybe his handsome face.Maybe his good temper.Maybe no one can tell exactly why he/she married the other.And how to balance his shortcoming and good point? What if he's great kind to u but lack of money to feed your family?
• Philippines
8 Jun 07
i have had my chance at choosing the right one for me and i have failed on it. when we choose our partner for life, the main consideration is not whether he is rich or he is poor but, that he loves as i am and that i love him too, in the same way. love should be the main consideration. for true love stays no matter what happens, through thick and thin. it is the deep love in the couple that makes them do everything within their power to make each one happy, to struggle at making life much better at all angles, and put their best to make each one more comfortable. this is a state of one's being that is beyond the measure of money.
• Philippines
14 Jun 07
thanks for the best response.
• China
9 Jun 07
Your comment is pertinent and practical. I would try to learn from it. Wish u happy and healthy.
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@williamjisir (22819)
• China
8 Jun 07
I cannot completely deny her opinion. I have to say that hers is partly right, because not all men hold the idea that they want to have a beauty as their wife. Usually a handsome guy has an ordinary-looking wife while a beauty has an ordinary-looking hubby.
• China
8 Jun 07
It could be, but you must know that true love doesn't mean that you must have a lot of money to get a beautiful wife if you can just have enough to live on. Nothing is absolutely. It is just like the Theory of Relativity by Einstein.
• China
8 Jun 07
Nothing is absolute. It is TRUTH.
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• China
8 Jun 07
The experienced wives usually say that if u want to avoid your hubby carrying on a clandestine love affair, just control his economy. There might be men only love their wives ,that's because they have not been attracted enough.
• India
8 Jun 07
If a person is financially poor but is willing to make his name in the world, then i think there is nothing wrong in marrying him. Secondly, if u marry a poor person today and after some time he becomes rich, i think he'll definately give you the respect as you was one of them who put their trust in him, in his abilities. Because you was with him in those tough days.
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• China
9 Jun 07
What will u do if u loved a girl deeply but she does not trust u'd bring her and future child an affluent life?