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mom - loving mother
United States
June 9, 2007 11:27pm CST
why do people judge others by looks? it's the inside that counts........
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• Philippines
10 Jun 07
Maybe because its what they see.. its hard to look of whats inside of a person, so they'll judge it by its look since its what they could see that easily, they can't see you through..
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• United States
10 Jun 07
It is not hard to see what's inside of a person. You look into their eyes, Remember the eyes are the window to the soul, and you can find out alot about a person by that. You have to be focused on what you are looking for and know that if you can't find what you are looking for in that persons eyes then they are not what they seem to be.
• Philippines
10 Jun 07
I don't know with you but me, I like looking at people. It's the only thing I know about them. I don't really mean to judge people but somehow I do form some perceptions about them. This is something natural in people since we're "sense beings". We operate on our senses. We know that there's something deeper in each person but we always give in to our sensual tendencies and form opinions of what we only see, hear, ... Eventually though, we get to know the other person better and suddenly "first impression lasts" is no longer true (most of the time). And then, the nice part is, we just laugh about our misconceptions.
• United States
10 Jun 07
O.K. You say you like looking at people, and don't mean to judge them, so let me ask you something, if a man that was a little over weight but really shy was looking at you and wanted to talk to you, would you talk to them, or would you ignore them? Would you try to get to know what is on the inside or pass judgement that because they are a little over weight must not care about themselves that much so why should you care? RIGHT??? Another thing, What if a man alot shorter than you also had the smae inside caractersitics as that man that is just a little over weight wanted to talk to you but was shy, would you shun him to because he is too short?? I'm a midget myself, and know from past experience that if someone that looks at me and passes judgement on me because of my stature, that is the person that I do not want to get to know because they themselves are too picky on what they see, if a person is too short, too tall, too skinny, too fat, by your standards then maybe you should sit down and rethink your standards as you could be missing out on meeting, the kindest, sweetest, and most sincere people that you would ever meet. Next time try looking into the eyes of a person like that as that is the true way to get to know that person, remember the eyes are the windows to the soul, by doing that you can never be wrong about a person. I myself, do not let my "sensual tendencies" get in the way as those are the senses that need to be ignored, until you get to know the persons real personality, and looking into a persons eyes is the only way to tell.
@00fear (3216)
• United States
17 Jun 07
i sometimes wonder that to because im those who is only judged from the looks and not the inside. im just like anybody else out there, i want friends and want to joined in a group or something. i hate being a loner. i think it is because how people look and the get confuse to how they may act. my aunt said that one day there was like a person who looked like all nice and everything but really was like those bad person types. she also saw another like not that good looking person but was really nice and everything.
• United States
10 Jun 07
Honey, Unfortunately, most people don't care about what is on the inside just what the person looks like, unfortunately, those types of people usually make the biggest mistakes of their lives by getting with the wrong person. I totally agree with you that it is what is on the inside that counts and that is all that should matter, becasuse what is in the heart and in the mind are the 2 most important qualities a person has, as that is what makes a person beautiful, or ugly, the nicest looking person could be the most dangerous type of person that there is. I wish everyone could see things the way that we do.