mY MOTHER IN LAW MADE ME P.O.!

@mgmagana (3618)
United States
June 10, 2007 7:53pm CST
i was so mad, my son's birthday was yesterday, and my mom in law had been outta town b/c her parents r sick. well she came home today, hmmm how coincidental a day after my sons party and didn't call and tell him happy birthday, now she's home and she says she didn't want to make him cry b/c he starts asking when she's coming home. i said, if he does tell him that u have to talk to him later, but she's just kept using her parents as an excuse when there is no excuse, it takes a minute of her time, not to mention, she should've came home for the party it's only a day difference not to mention she's going back next week.
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7 responses
• Canada
11 Jun 07
I would be P.O myself if my mother in law or my mother did this to one of my children as well . If she really cared she would have taken the time to come home the day earlier and it would have taken two seconds to pick up the phone and she was just using an excuse saying that she didn't want him to cry . I have always said that children , even at a young age will pick on , who is there for them and who is not there for them when they are younger and when they get older they will not want to have anything to do with family or friends that were not there for them as they will realize that they were not worth the time .
@mgmagana (3618)
• United States
11 Jun 07
i know, she's supposed to move in august to live with her parents, my husband said do not call her and invite her to any parties, because we'll just hear excuses on why she can't come! she was already saying well i don't have money, money this, money that!
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• Canada
13 Jun 07
It really is sad that some parents are like this because it is the grandchildren who are going to be hurt as a result , but children are smarter then we give them credit for and before long your child will realize this and know who was there for them and who wasn't and in the end it is the grandparents who will miss out on so much .
@TerryZ (22076)
• United States
11 Jun 07
I dont blame you for being P.O. I would have been too. How old is your son? She really should have called him to wish him a happy birthday. Well tell him I said Happy Birthday.
@mgmagana (3618)
• United States
11 Jun 07
thx TerryZ, he's now 4 yrs. old! when she's here at the parties, she goes to her room and doesn't even participate! i told her, well since u're moving u dont have to be here for the parties anymore. she said oh u would like that!
@TerryZ (22076)
• United States
11 Jun 07
She sounds like a piece of work.
@coolseeds (3919)
• United States
11 Jun 07
Americans are selfish and greedy. However I do feel that she should have called.
@mgmagana (3618)
• United States
11 Jun 07
i agree, she should have!
• United States
10 Jul 07
I know this hurts both of you..what does your husband say about it?..I went through a lot of problems with my mother-in-law as well..so, I can honestly say that I sympathize with you..what hurts is this is her flesh and blood so no matter what she thinks or feels about you she should be there with love for her little grandson...
@mgmagana (3618)
• United States
11 Jul 07
yes, my hubby was very upset, he told me not to invite her to any birthday parties! i don't care how she feels about me! it's my kids i care about!
@surveygrrl (1270)
• United States
25 Jun 07
That is really crummy. I can't believe she didn't even call. I asked all our parents what weekend would be better for them and chose the one they could all make it too. I know if they couldn't make it they would have at the least called to wish a happy birthday.
@mgmagana (3618)
• United States
25 Jun 07
exactly, she's lame, once she moves away i'm told by my hubby not to invite her to anymore parties.
• United States
11 Jun 07
Man my in-laws are the exact same way! Why are in-laws always a pain in the @$$!!!
@mgmagana (3618)
• United States
11 Jun 07
that's their job i guess!
@gabs8513 (48686)
• United Kingdom
30 Jun 07
Oh dear Sweetie I think tomorrow I am going to have to go further back to see what is going on with this but yes you are right she could have called him it does not take long at all