how do you deal with UNREQUITED LOVE?

unrequited love can actually last as very long time. i think instead of trying to be numb. the hurt by hurling oneself into work or partying or hanging out with friends would be the best way to face the situation and assess its full impact in ourself. one can spend sometime watch the wave of sadness as they build up insude us. allow them to crash against us and feel the eew way.i think if one can love someone, one is not dependent on the others response, and even if one's love is not returned in kind, one can wish the other person well with all of one's heart and move on with one's life. freeing ourselves, and making our love a positive force in itself, will free us from the burden of unrequited love

if this has happened to me, it will surely be dealt with the most easy way out. i will forget all about the guy. i will never understand why others will still keep on holding to a relationship which was considered long gone and done with at the end of the party. since it takes two to make a good relationship going, it is no use to be holding on to my end of the bargain, as there is no one there anymore at the other end of the line. for me, this is the most logical thing to do...let go and move on.

It took me a few years to realise I was in such a relationship and even though I thought I was giving my all, he was not. Nothing mattered to him but himself and even though it was not like that in the beginning, it sure came out in the end and when I finally had enough and left, he realised he wanted me all along. By then it was too late.

if i am falling in love with someone didn't love me~~ i will try to give up if there are no any chance to make him love me ~~ some one have love me but i can not accept it, so i know sometime we have to set him free if u love him~~ love is to give you all but request his love as reward~~ i will keep the love in the bottom of my heart and wish him luck~~

I'll hold on as long as it lasts. Though I couldn't be loved back, I'd still continue loving him cause thats what I really feel. But then, if he pushes me away or play my feelings then I'd really have to move on. I may be a fool for him but I can't let him abuse my heart. :(