Who do you go to for advice?

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They have no actual mind-they want to do say something has no meaning or has no kind for others. It is needed to do something or speak something which helpful to others in the world. thanking you. shahjahan

I usually go to my boyfriend for advice...then I make up my mind. Sometimes I am the same way..and get too emotional..so having someone tell me what's realistic helps to make the decision...

It depends on what the problem is. First, I may ask my hubby what he thinks. Sometimes I'll ask one or two of my friends for advice. If it's something really, really personal - I'll tend to try to sort that one out myself. Most of the time I've found sharing the problem with someone or asking for advice does help.

i have not had my mind in turmoil for years, Thank the Lord. but when i did have those moments when i didn't know where to turn or who to turn too. I always talk to God. just said down and talked to the Lord. Now when i'm in need of bouncing some ideas off someone i go to my bestfriend. she is bright and sharp. she thinks on her feet and she never ever sugar coats things. she tells it like it is and i love that

This is a great question? This reminds me that I need someone, I mean you can't live in this world alone. You need companions. I've gone in a serious issue 2 years ago, I was not living with my family that time. I was under the authority of the owner of the house where I lived. He has an experience about the issue, so I asked. I am living alone right now, I don't know who do I go whenever I need an advice. I am learning to live with myself, nobody's involved.

I go to my Partner for advise or if I have a problem and yes he helps me a lot he is so caring and understanding and he always gives me the right advise no matter what it is I can fully count and trust him

Usually when I'm upset I only talk to two or three people about my problems. Depending on who it is, I sometimes get some advice that I may or may not take, but I do appreciate the thought or at least them offering being a sounding board. If anything, I think that just venting about an issue helps me put it into perspective more than anything, such as when I'm in denial about something or make talking about much-needed, yet complex goals that are ahead of me. So while they may not be able to offer advice all the time, or even advice that I may not want to hear, I can at least look at it from a different point of view or even just more clearly once I get it off my chest.

Yes, of course, this is always good to seek advice if one feels that his own decision would have multi effects. I also tend to seek the advice. Hmmm for the question of "to whom I go" :) .... it depends upon the nature of the matter in focuss .... if it pertains to office matters, it is good to discuss with some best colleague, if pertains to family matters, then of course patron would be the best choice. Thanks for a nice topic.

The person that i go to for advice most of the time is my mother. But if it is something that i figure would really upset her than i talk to a close friend as she has enough on her mind and dont need to be upset anymore than what she is most times. I usually use the person as a sounding board to help it be clearer to me to decide and i also will take their suggestions too if i find it will help me solve the problem as well.

I go to my husband who is the most level headed, reasonable person I know. Like you, I tend to over-analyze and he understands my way of think and talks me through things excellently. When emotions get involved and I am not thinking very clearly is when he is at his best and keeps me grounded. I am blessed with him as a life partner.

If my mind is all muddled up and I am not thinking straight, I will usually try to calm down first and ponder over the issue when my head is clearer. I am an analytical person, so I will analyze the situation, rationalise the issues, think through what and why certain things had been said or done, and in the process, that usually helps me to make more rational decisions. If the issue at hand is over household, finances or family relationships, I will usually confide in my wife, and make a joint decision with her after some discussion. I trust her very much when it comes to making important decisions. In this way, we will both have ownership of the issue and decisions made. I think that's important in a relationship, because the decision may not turn out to be the appropriate one, and both parties should feel responsible for having made the decision together.

when my mind is in a turmoil and when i cant think straight i turn for my family and friends for advice, especially the ones who have experience troubles i deal with. sharing with a person definately helps you think straighter, just trust me. i sometimes take their advices, but sometimes if im still not sure, i would go for other peoples advices, and see which one would help me more.

I usually first go to my husband for advice. If he can't provide satisfying answer, I will turn to my close friends. Yet strangely, sometimes when I think I am indecisive, I've already made a decision myself deep down. When that happens, I only choose to follow one piece of advice-- my own advice.

Nobody can really solve your problems than yourself, and that is the whole truth. What is helpful though, is when you share it with another person, and this person can help you realize the solution by thinking out loud the problem and probable solutions, yeah, just like a sounding board.... Sometimes it is better to analyze problems when you look at it at a different perspective. Well, it's really better than have people see you talking to yourself! Been, there, done that, and people stare at me silly!!! lol On my case, it's my Mom who I go to when I want to analyze tough problems. She is not afraid to make comments that can sometimes hurt my feelings, but this is just because we are analyzing the problem, and she just gives me the 'other side of the coin'. Cheers!

I always use my older sister as my sounding board, and so far I can happily say that she has never given me bad advice. We have a very close relationship, even though she is 19 years older than I am, and we have the same personalities and pretty much the same outlook on life and where we want to go. She does the same thing with me, too, if she has problems with her kids, her work, or whatever. Right now we are having problems with our mom, she is a lotto addict and has gotten herself into some serious debt problems. We have been discussing what can be done, what we need to do and all. I am glad that we are so close that we always seek advice from each other.

I usually don't ask help for others,beacuse I don't want others to know my own business.But I also will ask help for my best friend.In fact,I just need a listener.I don't mind whether they give me advice or not.I just want to realise myself and let me feel better.In many instances,I talk to my diary,but it seems useless,because it couldn't give me any raction.I need interactive program.If my friend gives me advice,I would think about it.But whether I use it or not is dependant on.When I talk about my business to her,she always can find the point what I couldn't see.So friend is so helpful.Not all of the friends,but the best one.

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If i am a bit upset, I would share it with some of my trusted friends, and whenever i am relieved or maybe a bit okey, then it's time me to do decide what possible solutions am I going to do.