bfs mom what do i do

United States
June 11, 2007 2:58pm CST
okay im suppose to go to my bfs house tomarrow for the firts time ever to meet his mom I dont know what to do i am so nervous can someone give me advise about what to do what to say to here my bf and i are 4 years apart but she thinks its only3 because we dont want her to split us up and im afraid that i might say something and mess it all up cxan someone help me
5 responses
@tmlnmr (1850)
• Canada
12 Jun 07
Don't worry! You are 17 and you can be very mature at that age. Be yourself and be respectful. You will be fine!
• Indonesia
12 Jun 07
Well if i am in your position, although have different age between you and your boy friend, the point thing is that you love her upright no matter about the difference of your age, because a love never see from the age, social status, rich or poor but if we talk about love, we talk about heart so i suggest you that tell to his mom that you love him so much and that's all.
• United States
11 Jun 07
Be yourself because his mother will be aware of your acting.You do not give your age so even with a 4 year difference if you are 143 and he is 18 that is a big difference but if you are 20 and he is 24 that is less of a difference. Also I cannot tell how mature you are or yor boyfriend. Also if you are underage and he is not then if you became pregnant charges coudl be brought against him for rape. She (his mother) may be thinking of this also.
@harirao (124)
• Malaysia
12 Jun 07
Just chill grl.. they are just human's... hehehe.. but i would suggest something, be honest and friendly towards them. They should like you for who you are and not for who they want you to be.... don't keep anything in your heart and go there as a free person and take the opportunity to get to know them better..... i know this is super hard to do, but... it will be a good outcome if your able to do so... Good luck grl..
@babostwick (2036)
• United States
11 Jun 07
Well, the only thing I could suggest is try to be yourself and be respectful. I think that would probably help out a lot.