Bad tempered partners

My partner shys away from any conflict. he never gets mad - or almost never anyways. I think the only thing you can do is to tell him how you feel about his temper. Maybe you can come up with a plan on how to do things when he gets mad. maybe he should leave the rest of the family if he feels himself getting really mad. A little bit of anger is natural. I do not think it is very nice to live with someone that you have to be very careful not to anger. Adults should be able to controle themselves. Ig he is not maybe an anger management class would be good?

have u tried talking to him about this issue? perhaps he isnt aware... i guess the basic thingy in couples are communication, without this i guess nothing works... but i think if he is aware of the problem, he should do something to it... tell him tt u dun like things in such a way and that his bad temper can really turn u off... hope my advices helps...

My partner can get rather bad tempered at times, but the thing is, I don't stand for it and I let them know that. I let everyone know that I don't take kindly to being screamed at, or being on the blunt end of a bad temper when I haven't done anything wrong. If I've done something wrong, then you can scream at me all you want, but don't take it out on me. I think people just have to realize a bad mood isn't going to change the situation..because they throw a temper tantrum of a sort, and I sure as heck aren't going to let a child get away with throwing a fit, I'm not going to let a grown adult get away with it either. You shouldn't have to watch what you say. You shouldn't have to plan your conversations. You should point out that you are not going to take it, and that you find the outburst unacceptable and stop whatever you're doing and walk away. Don't stay there and let them continue with the attitude. Remove yourself. If they come find you, let them know you are not going to listen to it because it's not your fault and until they change their mind you're going to be unavailable. I mean it is not your fault they have an allergy and that foods continue that product. It just seems to me, your partner doesn't really know how to deal with their anger and throwing a tantrum is the only way they know how.

I have to say that it's not easy to change someone's character, especially he is an adult. When he is angry, then maybe just agree to him. When he calms down, then you can tell your views. It's not a good idea to fight with a hot temper man. Our Chinese has a logical saying: The soft things can win the hard things. For example, the running water can finally make a hole of a stone. You don't have to be angry when your partner is losing temper. On the contrary, you have to be tender. Mild words can make him calm down and you can have a talk peacefully.

so sorry to hear about that. does he realise that he's being bad tempered? some people dont' realise and thus refuse to take steps to becoming calmer. I guess once he recognises it, you can get him to deal directly with it. For instance, when he gets angry he can count to 10 before reacting and saying something he might regret later. Unfortunately I can't think of something you can do. I think change has to come from the person in question.

In a relationship, there will always a time where our partner gets angry or in a bad mood.What i usually do is just keep quiet.And when the time comes that he's okay already, then I'll talk to him about it and his manner.Fire should not meet with another fire.