Can I Love A Lesbian & Date Her ?

Malaysia
June 12, 2007 3:42am CST
Can I? I am interest with a girl. But she is lesbian. Should I ask her & date her ?
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13 responses
@leslai (21)
12 Jun 07
If you are a guy, yes of course. Why not? But if you are a girl, for me, that is perversion. It should not be.
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• Philippines
12 Jun 07
i view this thing, the way you do so, leslai. it is always worth giving some tries before giving up. losers just give up without any fight at all. for all you know, the girl takes a liking to you, too. if she says no, the first time, try again. befriend her first if you can never get to say her yes. take her to the canteen for a treat. she will take it to be a casual invitation rather than as a date. once she gets used to going with you dining, the date can be materialized soon after. patience usually pays more than what you can hope for.
@joahnna18 (368)
• Philippines
23 Nov 07
There's no problem if she likes also to date you. You should give it a try. And also you have to be friendly with her and after that you can try to ask her. She's a girl also maybe she can change her mind if he likes you.
@anjrit (997)
• Indonesia
22 Jun 07
It's depen on the girls,if she want to try to love you it's opportunity to you to love you.You have to ask her and date her before you decide to judge her that she was a lesbian...
@a_ce_e (1427)
• Philippines
19 Jun 07
If you are a man, you may give it a try. Be nice and show a real gentleman. Even she is a lesbian, she is still a girl. If at the first try she refuse for a date, maybe you may try to get close to her and be a good buddy.
• Philippines
19 Jun 07
It only depends in you, you could actually date here but warned her from the start that ur not interested with her, having a date with here is only for friendship. you yourself could hold the responsibilty but u have the right to choice,,
@maybel13 (205)
• Philippines
19 Jun 07
some says that if you're having a desire in entering in girl to girl relationship, or should i say lesbian, then you're also a lesbian. maybel you are having this identity crisis.
@dpk262006 (56756)
• Delhi, India
19 Jun 07
It is entirely your choice. Depends how much do you like her.
• China
18 Jun 07
communicate with her & have a try!
@yunlong (21)
• China
18 Jun 07
Before you make the decision,please think it over.Everyone has his life style,now that she is a lesbian,she will like the female,your quest to date her will probably also be turned down.Why not give it up and become very good friend with her,this will benefit both you and her,i think.:)
• Kottayam, India
12 Jun 07
Welcome to my lot.You are very clever and chose subject that everybody will put their hands.Marriage made in heaven so better think before you leap.I think that jump should not in to the darkness,let you come to the light and see and understand,after you may regret.
@abrarr (1246)
• Pakistan
12 Jun 07
yeah i think u chould ask her atleast and then its upto her what she gives response. i think she woud refuse but atleast u would not feel guilty taht u didn't even tried!!!
• Philippines
12 Jun 07
if you are a guy who happened to have been attracted to a beautiful woman who appears to be lesbian, go ahead. most girls who appear that way are not really lesbians, tehy are just manly. i like these girls better. they are more reliable and more confident in themselves. go ahead and ask her. give her the respect that she deserves during the entire period of your date. remember, that she is a woman, a girl and she expects you to treat her as such. if ever she'd laugh at your offer, just keep on and ask her again. tell her that it will be just a friendly thing that you will be having. after many more dates, you will discover a lot about each other and the friendship will naturally deepen - slowly, but surely. good luck.
@DJ9020 (1596)
• United States
12 Jun 07
I take it you are male. You can ask her, and maybe even date her if she is interested. But always remember that she will probably not stay with you in the long term if she is a lesbian.