why must we feel such pains

@megaplaza (1441)
Nigeria
June 12, 2007 7:09am CST
i had a friend everytime he settles down and try to find a wife, and evertime he tris not to make them cry they turn around and say goodbye. the very first girl had the worst words for him, she told him he was such a loser and thats why she has to leave. the last girl told him that she was so sorry but that she is pregnant for another man. everybody cant you just see and imageine the pain my friend is passing through.
4 responses
@thefuture (1750)
• Nigeria
12 Jun 07
What a disappointment. Tell him to try and settle down so he can find the right one for himself. Thanks
@lucky_witch (2711)
• Philippines
12 Jun 07
I know how it feels... but did your friend know the reason why her girlfriends turned their back on him... I mean you must take into consideration every possible cause of the problems I hope you understand what i mean. I eman it is either she found the wrong girl or there is something missing with your friend that made them turned their back... That is something that he had to think for himself I guess... Life is no fairytale...WE have to face pain for us to know ourselves and other people better...Be more wise and gain something from experience... how strong or weak we are, what are the things that is negative on our part, things that we need to improve... the things that will improve us, experiences that will give us strength..., people that we should trust, limitations of everything...I dont know what exactly the reason but one of those would definitely be the reason.
@migenKC (792)
• Philippines
12 Jun 07
your friend needs your comfort... make sure that he wont lose any hope of having someon who could love him trully... and try to have some soul searching... look at the two sides... maybe he has a strong personality that makes his girls leave him left alone..
@bcl_me (583)
• Philippines
12 Jun 07
well probably the problem is with you friend...that is why he always ends up broken hearted...you should advice him that he has a problem with himself and you being his friend should know this so point that out and try to help him out by suggesting the best way to solve it...im sure you know him so well from head to foot don't you? do it all together like a team and excercise and rehearse then apply then its time to find another victim.