Contract for married???

Australia
June 12, 2007 12:21pm CST
Hello myLotter I just read an article about this. Some Asian girl are married with other cultural man with some contract. I just thinking, that we should married with someone we love, but some woman have to do that because the need money for their life and their family. And there is a better way than being a b**ch ( I hope you understand what I mean). Do you think that you will really fall in love with your contract husband? What will you do if your daughter decided to do that? For me is just like someone married for a couple years and then they will get divorce, just like another couple. What do you think about that? Thank you God bless you
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@add_im (2712)
• Philippines
13 Jun 07
That's so weird to know that someone will only do that for contracts, it seems like to me there's no difference in such when it comes to company contracts itself. Marriage itself is a very sacred thing God designed for both men and women to unite together in one in the bond of marriage. It's not just only a piece of paper or a so called contractual agreement, so to speak but it's more to just a commitment but rather it's a lifetime choice of life and it's God will for both couples being together in the bond of marriage.
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• Australia
13 Jun 07
Hello add_im I am so agree with you, we need love to get married. But maybe they have a big reason to do that. God bless you
@gscs1838 (1536)
• Malaysia
13 Jun 07
hey ! little angel, i am from asian and i even never know that about marry contract..where can i find one! !!! my bro was married to a vietnamese girl. introduce by an agency company.. they're living peacefully..
• Australia
13 Jun 07
Hello gscs1838 I heard that some woman married just for 2 or 3 years contract, company a man and they think that was better that just living together. Thank you
• United States
13 Jun 07
Not so much any more but this used to happen often. The parents would set up the marriage and the children were obligated to go through with the marriage. If you think about it marriage is something that until you actually live under the same roof you don't a lot about the person any way. This at one time was not a uncommon practice. I would not like to be in that circumstance. I like choosing my own mate and choosing him for the reason of love.
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• United States
13 Jun 07
Another thing this kind of marriage can work. If both are willing to work at it think about the time of mail order bride.
• Australia
13 Jun 07
I am same with you, I like my own choice for my future. Thank you sunshinelady
@tholitz (1127)
• Philippines
16 Jun 07
Hi little angel. Here in my country it was a trend particularly with woman who comes from a poor family. It was one way for them to get out of the poverty and have a better life and improve their way of living. But because of many bad incidents and news of maltreatment of their foreign husband, it was gradually subsides. I know that their are also successful story of marriage with this type of setting, but I think we could count them with our hands.
• Philippines
16 Jun 07
Well, we cannot love what our minds want us to love, the heart is always the decision maker on that thing..well, love can be developed..if two in the contract decides to give their relationship a chance, maybe there's hope for them to fall in love with each other..