Should Continue the relationship when she know he Have A Wife & Children ?

Singapore
June 13, 2007 12:04am CST
A young girl knew someone from internet, they start a relationship 2 months ago. One day, she get to know that he has a family, a wife & children. What she can do ?
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@happymom1 (1179)
• United States
13 Jun 07
If the person have a family already i will quit talking to the guy because it will ruin the relation of his family when they know about that. I dont want to be the source why they have troubles. I will respect the family and leave the guy alone. Happy posting!
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• United States
13 Jun 07
It's no question about what she should do! Break it off with him immediatly. The guy is a jerk, he is cheating on his wife and leaving his kids to go have an affair! Bad news! It is such a terrible thing when a "family man" cheats on his whole family like that! The girl may feel to blame, but she isn't...UNLESS she doesn't break it off. If she doesn't then she is just as bad as he is!
• Malaysia
13 Jun 07
ask her to get out from the man.
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@eden32 (3976)
• United States
14 Jun 07
I think she should break it off. Not only because he's married but also because I'm assuming he lied about it for 2 months. If she met him & right off the bat he said listen, I am married but seperated (which is usually a line of BS) but at least he gave her the option to not go further right from the beginning. Pretending to be something you are not, is just unacceptable.
14 Jun 07
break up with him. because: 1. if he has done this to his family, he can do it to her too 2. his children need him more than she does do you really think she can life with the feeling of guilt?
@ctiu80 (216)
• Philippines
14 Jun 07
I would say cut that relationship.. For the sake of the wife and children. If she continue that relationship maybe one day it will happen to her just like that..
@ideaman (64)
• Singapore
14 Jun 07
In my opinion, Being friends is OK. Just do not fall into something deep. It is good to have realistic expectations and remain platonic. just my opinion...
@teison2 (5924)
• Norway
14 Jun 07
I do not think it would be a good thing to continue a relationship with someone that is already in another. It can only cause pain and hurt in the end
@youless (99310)
• Guangzhou, China
13 Jun 07
It's wrong to have a relationship with a man who has a wife and children. This kind of relationship usually can't last for a long time. If that man can betray his wife, then one day he can get tired of you. This kind of man is the most disgustful.