Is this consider unfaithful?

i don't consider this to be an unfaithful act on your part. when you think about your ex boyfriends, it doesn't usually mean that you still love them or still harbor feelings for them. as u said, you just miss them, and that's different. i still think of my ex boyfriends too, but not all of them. but sometimes they still pop into my mind, for many reasons. i believe that it isn't unfaithful, not unless if you put these thoughts into actions. like if you suddenly thought of one of your ex boyfriends and do something to get in touch and be with that person romantically, then that's another thing. but just thinking about that person would not in any way be an act of unfaithfulness. so for me, it's just normal. if you love your boyfriend, then stick with him, no need to get bothered by these thoughts....stay inlove girl :)

No body knows tha anser except you. May be u liked them better than the present one. May be your presentt relation ship lost the initial excitement or failed to meet your expectations. Generally we try to convince ourselves by giving resons. Don't give reasons or justifications for yourself. Just see the truth unbaisedly. You will know it

Forget about your ex bfs and move on with your life, appreciate what you have now other wise you will miss something good.

Thinking about a past boyfriend doesn't make you unfaithful. Of course, if that's ALL you can think about and you no longer think about your current boyfriend, then there might be something to think about, whether you stay with your current bf or not. Because it wouldn't be fair to him if you never thought of him. So, unless you act upon your thoughts of your past boyfriends, you are not unfaithful.

Nothing is impossible in this world, even forgiveness. That is why if you are still in constant communication with your exes, and they seem to be giving signals that they want to get back together, even if you have been hurt by them during your previous relationship, I believe it will be possible for you to still like them. Constant communication brings you closer to each other, if you do not want them back and you are certain that you are now happy with your current bf and he is the best there is, then why keep your options open to these exes? You are just making yourself prone to getting back with the ex. If you are sure and do not have that intention then you might considering some distance that won't make you fall back in love for them. Because if you don't do so, in no time you will be having thoughts of uncertainty and it might just end up in being unfaithful to your current partner.

Is not betrayal to think of someone else and you are use to be treated a certain way, you miss the abuse from your old boyfriends. Look to the future and not the past, I use to think of my old boy frieds. I use to miss them and wonder if they ever missed me. Now I do not care. I am at an age it does not matter. You will soon forget to miss them.

Well , if you feel that you are unfaithful , then you are ... no one will be here to say you are unfaithful anyhow yea .... another type of saying is that you are not married , you still have your choice to look for a better man yea ... anyway just heck care your previous ex boyfriend yea

hi huilee, this is not being unfaithful, not in the least. i feel, that all your past relationships have been severed because of the guys and not you. its them you had broken up. so, deep inside, you still cherish their friendships and the special ways they used to care. every person is special in his own ways. so miss that and may be you really loved them. thinking and contemplating about them does not make you unfaithful, its only humane. sweetie, take this out of your head that you are betaying your love. NO you are not. you love him a lot and nothing can replace them. he has his own ways and he is special. i really appreciate your honesty to see and analyse things so transparently. don't worry, this is just a ohase, which, i am sure you would overcome soon. love and hugs..

For me, you are not unfaithful! I also had a boyfriend and I love him so much though sometimes I think of my past relationship it is not because I miss them but I just wanna tell myself how lucky I am to leave them. And, I think in your case, you are just wondering if they are happy or committed like what you are now. Maybe, you just wanna find out if they are suffering now because they have betrayed you. But, seriously, there is no harm of thinking about them as long as your not making any moves to see them or to talk to them for some unnecessary matters. Keep smiling and Be in love!! :-)

At least you are not fantisizing them...well i think honey it ok to as many as you like...do not hesitate...just do it...it is your happiness that is involved here here not your current bf...so you have a choice...just keep it a secret though...just look at the picture of you having 10 kids someday with your bf...don't you think that while that has not come yet you should at least be somehow give yourself some freedom...then get a little serious with you bf...after your escapade and always remind yourself that you are very much ready to take his loads. Just a thought though...joke!

i think its alrite...we r all hmans... n at times we do have problems wid r emotions...if da present bf is true...dis phase will pass away soon...

It's not wrong to think about your ex from time to time. There are times that you tend to compare your past bf from your present. But in terms of missing them, that is kind of weird. If you are friends with them, that makes it ok. But if you still have feelings for them, that's another issue. If your exes were taking you for granted, then I see no point of wasting your time thinking about them.

I tend to find myself doing the exact same thing, I don't think it's unfaithful I think it's nature.

i guess its not unfaithfulness in my opinion... sometimes i do think of my ex's too.. there are things that we found in them that we can never find in the preson we actually with right now. we're keeping memories. especially the good ones no matter how horrible our past relationship was. its the good times that counts. but we need to move on with our lives. and thank the person who has found us right? so stop being to wacky about your ex's. they're called ex's bec they are not meant for you. so cheer up and be glad your loving someone and you are loved in return.

no I do not think that you are being unfaithful or betraying your BF, if you were acting on your thoughts of missing your ex's and actually trying to get in touch with them and want to have a night out with them then THAT would be unfaithful but it is not abnormal to miss them. Especially if the breakup was not mutual...meaning that they broke it off with you vs the other way around. I think of my high school sweetheart ALL the time, it sucks, but he is in my mind constantly...It is not always good that he is there, and it is definitely not because i miss him it is just that he was a huge part of my life when we were together. I can not help but to wonder what he is doing, if he has any kids, if he is still married. what he is doing with his life. We saw eachother at our 10 year high school reunion. i always figured that if we did see eachother it would not be a good thing we did nto end things well between us and there was a lot of other things that happened with us that sort of kept us in this strange bond for longer than I think we both wanted it to. Anyway, It is not abnormal to think about yur ex and to miss them . I miss some of my other exs, but not this one.... My husband thinks about his exes as a matter of fact we talk about them quite a bit. It is kind of funny. That is how close me and my husband are we are completely soulmates and I love that we are together. I can not imagine not being with him I can not imagine being with someone else...I use to have nightmares about it.

I have memories of my ex's and think of them time to time and wonder what life may have been like if we never broke up but than I wouldn't be where I am today.... Thinking is not betrayal it was a part of your life lived, maybe there is something you are lacking currently that is bringing you to think of them... As long as you don't act on feelings which may lead to betrayal...

I dont consider your thoughts as a betrayal or unfaihful. In most cases exs do end up being regular friends and there is nothing wrong with that. I am sure that your boyfriend has trust in you i believe you just need to trust yourself sometimes. I believe that where u had that many failed relationships and all being mostly trust issues that you are starting to second guess yourself maybe.

As long as you are using these memories as a reminder that these relationships failed because of thier betrayals....and are not thinking of them in a physical manner....you are not seeing them behind your bf's back or lying to him about seeing them...i do not see where you are doing anything wrong....I would not consider that unfaithful or any type of betrayal...

I don't think so, thinking of your ex's is just normal. Just make sure you don't have the feelings anymore, it's complicated if there is. They are just memories after all. Enjoy being with your boyfriend now and if you love him then make the most of it.

Thinking about someone and missing someone is not a form of betrayal or being unfaithful. As long as it's just confined in your thoughts and you're not acting on it or doing anything that would hurt your present bf, then it should be ok. These ex-bfs were a part of your life at some point so you would understandably still feel a kind of connection, but that should be limited to just a friendship now that you have another bf.