Telemarketers How Do You Deal With Them?

United States
June 13, 2007 7:58am CST
Telemarketers how do you deal with them? Do you screen your calls and just not answer? Do you take the time and listen to their little script? Are you nice? Are you sarcastic? I have to say I have tried it all. After they come to the first pause I often tell them how well they read. LOL At times I do not answer and they just keep calling. Or I will answer and when they ask for me I tell them I am not home. The latest and greatest is I let me boys get on the phone (they are 9 & 10) and they will act like a baby at first they start goooing and ga~ing then they will go into a full cry. LOL they usually hang up. Am I a bad Mom for letting them do this? They really have so much fun so I let them.
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@Mare73 (1335)
• United States
13 Jun 07
I asked them for THEIR phone number and ask if I can call them back. Off course they say "we can't do that", and I simply say, then don't call me. One time I asked them to hold and I put the phone down!!! 30 minutes later they were still on the line. NOW: I just don't answer the phone. If that important they can leave a message. If it's a number that I don't recognize, or unknown/private, I do not answer it.
• United States
13 Jun 07
HEy thanks for your post and WELCOME to mylot!
• United States
13 Jun 07
No one that I know of likes a telemarketers. Because if you try to tell them you are not interested s lot of them get rude. I even had one of them tell me that they were not finished saying what they had to say. At that point I just hung up. Since I do have caller ID on my phone I just don't pick up any more. I know all the numbers of people who might call. Not just my friends phone numbers but doctors office, and hospitals numbers. All the numbers I need to know I do. So I just don't pick up. No you are not a bad mom for letting them do this.
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• United States
13 Jun 07
its not there they're being rude there just trying to get u to listen to them. not sure y ya think thats a easy job at all u have people calling u a as*hole all day everyday. so sometime we/they do get rude. but most of the time its because the caller is rude 1st.
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• United States
13 Jun 07
They tend to call at really rude times like after 8:00pm when your geting your kids to bed that is enough to set me off right from the get go.
• United States
13 Jun 07
the one i worked at was open til 9 so i had no choice but to call until 9. i didn't wanna be there calling u guys/gals after 6 but i had to get that money
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@lisado (1227)
• United States
13 Jun 07
I generally am nice the first time. I say no thank you and if they keep going with their script than I hang up. The local newspaper calls almost weekly and it gets irritating. I subscribed but never read it, so cancelled. Now they won't leave me alone and keep calling even when we tell them to take us off of their list. It really gets annoying.
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• United States
15 Jun 07
I have the state troopers calling me.
• United States
15 Jun 07
not because I have broken the law becasue they want money! LOL
• Canada
13 Jun 07
I will answer the phone then ask if they can hang on a minute then go about doin what i was doin eventually they hang up since they get paid by the amount of calls or sales they do they do nto waste tiem waiting on the phone for more than 5 mins or so.
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• United States
15 Jun 07
lol
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@SmokePiff (436)
• United States
13 Jun 07
ok im goin give u all the tip ya need being a ex telemarketer. all u have to do is ask them very nice to please take u off the list. thats it. all i ask is ya do it nice and leave out y don't u get a real job. not sure if u all know but telemarketing pays pretty well. its just stressful hearing jerks tell u all day to get a real job. only thing is when u do tell them to take u off the list its goin to take up to 3days before the computer takes u out the list. so don't chew the next person up that calls u. thats not helpin u out at all if i was to get that call then i'd put ur number rite back in the list as a hang up and u'd get the same call back in 10mins. so just be kind to the telemarketers there just doing there job.
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• United States
13 Jun 07
Trust be I have but it seems I have a whole new group calling me right now. I will tell themif they call today. Also I have one that always just hangs up on me I have no idea how to stop that one but it drives me nuts! Sorry if I have upset you.
• United States
13 Jun 07
Oh lol that is too funny. You seem like a real quick whit!
• United States
14 Jun 07
Well since both of my parents have cell phones now and the only people that have their number is important people, they just turn their house phones on silent ringers. lol That way they still have a regular phone line but they don't have to hear the ringing. We also put their numbers on the DO NOT CALL list.
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• United States
15 Jun 07
thanks welcome to mylot
@anja31 (708)
• Canada
13 Jun 07
Mostly about supper time I get the telemarkters on the phone. Most of the time is that i am the nannie and the person who live here is not here right know. So, feel to be free for cailling back. Somethimes I will say i dont have any interesting in it, so live me alone and I will hang up.
• United States
15 Jun 07
thanks have a great day!
@ESKARENA1 (18261)
13 Jun 07
well, i think thats great, what I do is simply put them on hold while i finish my meal, it stops others getting through and must be really annoy them
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• United States
15 Jun 07
maybe next time you can say real loud yummmmmm yummy! LOL thanks for your post
@cher913 (25782)
• Canada
13 Jun 07
well we have call display and i screen calls and yes (hangs head) i am guilty of not answering the phones when i dont recognize the number too...lol i usually interrupt them and tell them i am not interested...but what i hate is when they call and it is automated! especially if it doesnt start after i say hello once...i immediately hang up...i have no time to wait for these people!
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• United States
15 Jun 07
The automated ones leave messages too! oh what fun!
@mrsbrian (1949)
• United States
13 Jun 07
I dont like them, and sometimes i find them to be funny I mean they will say we were in your neighborhood and noticed you could use some new siding-OH REALLY I reply you were in our heighborhood wow thats weird because all the houses here are all brick so how can we need new siding? I know there is something called the national-do-not-call list in the usa and I have entered my number with them and now I dont get those calls, if perhaps a new company picks up my number I tell them im registered with the national - do - not call -list they say thank you and hang up and I never hear from them again.
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• United States
13 Jun 07
I will have to look into that!
@mflower2053 (3223)
• United States
13 Jun 07
My 23 month old daughter loves to answer the phone so when I don't reconize the number I let her answer the phone. She says hello and bye bye to them lol
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• United States
13 Jun 07
Well that just about cute!
• India
13 Jun 07
Hi RIckrock8! Telemarketers are atime a real menace. But they too are doing the Job. So i normally decline the offer politely. But i get angry when i get repeated calls.
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• United States
15 Jun 07
Your right they must have a pretty tuff skin.
@Cassy1976 (796)
• Australia
13 Jun 07
I hate tele marketers! I usually start by telling them I have a private number and within 2 seconds they hang up as they are not allowed to call private numbers without permission, I really like your idea about letting the children answer them phone, it made me laugh, might have to try that one day
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• United States
15 Jun 07
I put my number on the national do not call list!
• United States
13 Jun 07
There is nothing better than having a bit of fun with telemarketers. if they are going to interrupt your dinner or the wonderful evening you've planned by calling and trying to sell you a time share or a new credit card with a smart chip(which they really don't know why it is smart, by the way)- the least you can do is make it fun for you. I am usually nice to them but I do mean things in the background, like flushing the toilet and making fart noises over the phone. It really amazes me how with some people nothing really seems to phase them at all. I got into a fake argument with my wife for fun once during the call and this guy just kept on reading away apparently unaware that I wasn't listening. On and on like a robot. I would hate that job.
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• United States
15 Jun 07
lol my boys have a fart machine....I better not tell them that! welcome to mylot
• United States
14 Jun 07
well we have caller ID so if a number comes up we donot reconize we let the machine pick up
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@nnsb75 (632)
• United States
14 Jun 07
i have a caller ID so i know when its telemarketing are calling, i let my answering machine pick it up but they won't leave a message of course so they just hang up.
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@misheleen73 (6037)
• United States
13 Jun 07
I used to be a telemarketer, so i try to be nice. I hated when people let me get through the whole thing just to say no. I preferred people to either say right away no, or even just hang up. then I could move on. I know now I try to do that, but sometimes they won't take no for an answer. I just say again.. I am not interested, please remove my name from your calling list, and then hang up. If the same people call again I tell them I was to be removed from their list and they are in violation of the law. That usually gets rid of them.
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• United States
13 Jun 07
I bet if they knew you were a hpayy lil monkey rocking and rolling they would have been nicer!
@dlkuku (1935)
• United States
14 Jun 07
I don't have a house phone, we each have our own cell phones, but if someone calls and I don't recognize the number I won't answer, I let it go to my voicemail. Telemarketers rarely leave messages though.
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@nitzel (79)
• Philippines
14 Jun 07
Telemarketers are the reason why I don't like giving out my number. They just can't understand NO! I do understand that they are just doing their job, but they have to respect the person's decision and right to say NO. Thing is, after you say no to someone, another person from same company will call you again. What I do is I tell my bank, credit card company, etc. not to give out my number to 3rd parties of any marketing group.
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• United States
14 Jun 07
don't really have to do anything with telemarketers except say no thank you then hang up.
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