the meanings of Respect ..&...what is the difference between self resp and just
By farazkh1
@farazkh1 (1153)
Pakistan
June 13, 2007 5:50pm CST
Sometimes i think ......that people don't really care about real respect which can be achieved by righteousness & honesty .....so i have seen most of the people only care about there emotions there desires & to fulfill there needs but they do not care about emotions of others & there feelings how will they feel by there way of talking and behavior .........
people using bad slangs for each other giving bad names,backbiting,teasing,using racial abuses and now the new way of insulting have been given by Dictators of this world in which people are teasing others for using bad names giving labels to there religions and faith without knowing it without authenticity........so they are actually killing others by using there tongues not arms but hurts can be more sever then expected and can last for long time and sometimes can't be forgotten.....
So my point is should we think about it and control ourselves and our words from not hurting others to gain respect in hearts not just temporary/fake respect.......
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2 responses
@camar_lyn (1028)
• Singapore
14 Jun 07
I know exactly what you are trying to say. I feel the same way. I think people in general accpet it when they see people being disrepectful towards others.
If we do not want to confront those people, we should try to instill respectful behaviour within our family and hopefully that will grow and affect other people around us as well.
There are just too many young and middle aged men and women who shows disrespectful behaviour. Back stabbing, gossipping, verbal and physical abuse, etc. - Lyn
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@farazkh1 (1153)
• Pakistan
14 Jun 07
first level of Jihad(stive/strugle) in which you fight against your own evil inside yourself and create a hostile & friendly environment for others around and share our part to deliver the same spirit in others to let them also think about it to practice there righteousness too...........
thanks you very much for responding ......
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@Lydia1901 (16351)
• United States
17 Jun 07
I think sometimes you really got to let it out or it will eat you up inside. I see no point of trying to be fake just to spare someone's feelings. Sometimes, it is okay to tell it like it is.
