Can you tell that I'm holding a grudge?

United States
June 13, 2007 10:45pm CST
Assuming your a woman, please answer this question. (And, guys please stay out of this, I've heard enough from the male counter-part for the night.) Who is more trustworthy, your best friend or your boy friend (or husband)? It's the boyfriend, right? Is it because guys are notorious liars, and only tell the truth when it's convenient, or because a true friend won't leave you for a newer version or someone with a tighter stomach? Not sure if you could tell, but currently I'm holding a grudge against my man!
4 responses
@shemah (840)
• Malaysia
14 Jun 07
Yeah.. i'd say the bf/husband. I think because the connection you share with that person physically and emotionally is deeper than ur best friend. I think. Oh.. i couldn't tell. Really i couldn't~~
• United States
14 Jun 07
I was just pretty upset with the hubby last night and was just blowing off some steam in my post! The whole thing was over a silly argument. Everythings fine now. Thanks for taking time to post.
• United States
17 Jun 07
Well since you are in a grudge with your honey, I'll say the best friends are more trustworthy. lol But to answer this question honestly, its kinda hard because my husband is my best friend. I knew him fore many years before we started dating and got married. Yeah I have gal pals but I'm not sure if I would say I would trust my life with them more then my husband... maybe I should get mad at Ricky and then I will change my answer :)
• United States
15 Jun 07
I trust my man but I gotta say my trust my girls even more. My girls are always listening to what I say and what I don't say. And you are right...your girls will not trade you in for a tighter, younger version. They are always there. Either way I trust him to an extent. Men only tell women what they need to know which is like 90% of the truth the other 10% is what you will never know. I know that. So I snoop around and figure out the other 10%.
@makingpots (11915)
• United States
15 Jun 07
Well, like TeresaK, my husband is also my best friend. I probably should have passed up this discussion, right? He is definitely more trustworthy because I know he will say what needs to be said. Sometimes I think my friends worry too much about what they think I need to hear.