Male Gender - Whats Up With This Mother & Son Bond?
By fellowlife
@fellowlife (988)
Nigeria
June 16, 2007 1:37am CST
whats up with males and your mothers???
Yeah i know your mama brought you us and all, but do u we have to bring her into the picture everytime.
Most guys i've met are always like "my mother said i shouldn't do this", my mama expects it like this, "mama will tell me when to buy a car" " i'll talk to my mum about it ............ its quite discouraging
I consciously try not to bring it into my relationship or marriage.
2 responses
@fallenangelteegra (235)
• United States
16 Jun 07
Well I am not sure about what a man thinks but as a mom I know that the bond is there because we are the ones primarily taking care of them!! They rely on us more than their fathers! For some weird reason girls are normally daddies girls and boys are momma's boys!! I know personally that when my son is older he needs to live his life for himself and make his own discissions! His father is a bigtime momma's boy couldnt turn around,change clothes without talking to her about it!! the true reason why we split i couldnt handle his mom or his addicition to only talking to her about everything and not me!!
I have vowed that my son will not end up like his dad!!! I believe he should be his own man not his momma's puppet!!
@StrawberryKisses (2833)
• Canada
16 Jun 07
OMG I can't stand mama's boys they drive me absolutely nutz. I could never understand why men caouldn't think for themselves. Like come on they are on their own and they need to live their lives without having to tell mommy everything or run things by mommy before doing everything. GEESH I know exactly how you feel on this one. Frig m Father is a mama's boy and that even dries me mental. I swear my son will NEVER be a mama's boy no matter what I have to do to make him not be one LOL
