wife vs sister

June 16, 2007 6:12am CST
if there is a fight between your wifr and your sister whom would you support and why. i ma held up in such a sitation. pls advice
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@farazkh1 (1155)
• Pakistan
16 Jun 07
I advice you to not involve in this situation for now and see who's on the wrong side when you become sure then gather both and then make a judgement i hope the trouble will be solved but do not let them bother you everyday if that will not stopped as the result you will become helpless and confused ....... women is the most difficult thing on earth so stay calm ..........
@student7 (1002)
• United States
16 Jun 07
I was a sister-in-law(SIL) and my bro-in-law's(BIL) wife hated me. She would try to pick fights with my husband and myself. Well my SIL kicked both my hubby and my family out of her house. We went to my BIL and he supported her. We were so hurt. We went back to California with a vow not to help him until he left her. Well he eventually did and we are not back in contact with him. It hurts on both sides. If you take your sister's side, then your wife will be hurt, if you take your wife's side then your sister will be hurt. Talk about being stuck between the middle. My advice is to sit both your wife and sister down and tell them that you will not take sides. Tell them that whatever problems they have are between the both of them and you will not be dragged into the middle of it.
@TriciaW (2441)
• United States
16 Jun 07
Fist it would depend on the situation and who is right not who is who. I would talk to both of them because you really don't want your wife and sister fighting. You have to live with your wife so it is important that you support her but that doesn't mean if she is wrong you can not talk to her about it. On the same token your sister needs to be talked to if she is in the wrong. Sometimes it doesn't matter in these cases who is right and who is wrong but the fact that they are both being childish to continue a fight that puts others in the middle.