Judgemental People...

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@rangics (1335)
Philippines
June 17, 2007 12:55am CST
We really can't get away with this pest in our lives. There are people who just can't seem to be satisfied looking at you. Mean individuals who judge you basing on their first impressions or your looks or your lifestyle. So what's the big deal?. How do you react with this kind of people or situations? Do you hate it when you're being judged by others?
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• Philippines
4 Aug 07
I really do not like people who are judgmental. It seems their business is to watch after other people while passing by themselves and their own shortcomings. Being too judgmental is one of the many reasons why people do not get along so well. Too bad there are also some systems, like religions, who have the tendency to become judgmental.
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@rangics (1335)
• Philippines
5 Aug 07
Very true pal. Tnx for sharing. ;)
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@mssnow (9493)
• United States
17 Jun 07
I usually just ignore them if they actually say mean things to me. I just be as nice and as friendly as i can. Most people who are mean want someone to fight back and i don't play those games. I KNOW that i have wonderful friends who love me and care about me for me. So, I don't need to be around people who judge me or anyone else.
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@rangics (1335)
• Philippines
17 Jun 07
I see. One good point you got there. Tnx friend;)
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@Dan_ul (858)
• Romania
17 Jun 07
a good reaction will be to ignore them, to move forward and don't give them the satisfaction of seeing that you are hurt by their behavior:) all the best...
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@rangics (1335)
• Philippines
17 Jun 07
Completely true. ;)
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• United States
17 Jun 07
As a teen I use to take judgmental people to the heart and after growing to know me, my body, my appearance... and Etc... I begin to build self confidence... because of that I can say that what people say has no impact on me what-so-ever... because I have that joy and contentment within myself what they say becomes meaningless and non usefull....I laugh.. and I keep going and doing what is best for me...its sad when people do those things to other people, and the reason why they do it is because they are not happy within themselves because if they were they wouldn't feel the need to put other people down... I say don't let it bother you and kill there evilness with kindness... it never fails
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@rangics (1335)
• Philippines
17 Jun 07
I agree on that. No one knows yourself that much except you yourself alone..;) Tnx there pal;)
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@Sherry12 (2475)
• United States
17 Jun 07
I don't like it at all and it seems like everybody thinks they have a right to judge others. I try to stay away from people who do this. But, you just never know when you are going to run into them or what people say after you leave.
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@rangics (1335)
• Philippines
17 Jun 07
Yeah you're right. There are just some who appears to be nice when you're in front of them.. ;)
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• India
17 Aug 07
you are right. i think time takes care of them. hope they turn into better leaves. GOD bless, apple.
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@rangics (1335)
• Philippines
19 Aug 07
I do hope so pal... ;)
• India
19 Aug 07
best of luck to all of us who have faced some music of this kind, what should we call it, soul, jazz, funk. lol. love, apple.
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@rangics (1335)
• Philippines
19 Aug 07
lol! ;)
@MarieJ23 (1041)
• United States
8 Oct 07
Before, I used to entertain comments and whatever stupid things from those kind of people. I usually get affected BUT NOT anymore right now. I don't give a damn care already as to what they will say. We can't please anybody no matter how hard we try. I just ignored them right now but if they are going to tell me upfron, I just say " who cares?'"
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@rangics (1335)
• Philippines
2 Nov 07
That's very true pal! As long as you know that you're on the right track, who cares?. hehehehhe! Go girl! ;)
@jarves (814)
• Philippines
19 Aug 07
There are really a lot of people out there that are very judgmental. I really hate this kind of people. You just can't judge a person without knowing him/her deeply. People's personality does not always reflect on how they look outside. If I encounter these kind of people, I just avoid them and not listen to them.
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@rangics (1335)
• Philippines
25 Aug 07
I do the same too pal! Tnx for sharing! ;)
@fazelath (1174)
• India
16 Aug 07
i dont like it,and i just ignore and move on if that person is not important to me
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@rangics (1335)
• Philippines
19 Aug 07
That's true. Why let yourself get affected with them?. Go pal! ;) Tnx for sharing.
@beauty_ph (2751)
• Philippines
11 Aug 07
I just can't help it, I often judge others, so I asked for God's guidance. I can't help myself judging about how they look like. I think I am paranoid to think that someone can be a thief or might something bad. This has something to do with my pass experience when my mother's bag was snatched. But I feel so sorry about this. God bless!
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@rangics (1335)
• Philippines
12 Aug 07
well at least you're being honest to yourself. It's good that you're asking God's guidance whenever you experience it. More power to you pal. ;)