whom will you blame if someone cheats you...???? yourself or the cheater...???

India
June 17, 2007 7:38am CST
often we find people cheating others... but if the person who is being cheated doesnot fall into his trap , how can anyone ever cheat us...??? cheating normally occurs when we are not satisfied with ourselves and want more money or assets... our desires only cheat us... so how can we blame others..???? post your views... and also any intersting incident in which you have been cheated by anyone...
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• Philippines
17 Jun 07
it works both ways really. there is a cheater because one can be cheated. one is cheated because there is a cheater. if you do not let yourself be fooled then a cheater would never exist.
@tigertang (1750)
• Singapore
17 Jun 07
I think I follow the usual human reaction. WHen I get cheated, I usually complain about the guy who cheated me or try and find an excuse - "I had no choice" etc etc. However, upon later analysis, I try to think about what I could have done in the situation. One of the first employers I had, ended up cheating me in quite a bad way. However, much of everyone's surprise, we remain good drinking buddies. Many people wonder how I can still be friends with the guy but I always say that when I look back at things, I realise that a good part of the fault was with me. I was young and arrogant and thought he was an old fool and in the end - I learn from the experience and move on
• India
18 Jun 07
excellent... hope your friendship continues.... :)