Why do we go for marriage? Why can't we stay single?

Marriage ring - Do you believe in marriages?
@rakhii (1302)
India
June 17, 2007 10:55pm CST
Hey friends,I was responding to a discussion right now, where it was asked who all are single on mylot. I am one of them. Are you also the one? If yes, do you want to marry? Why or why not?I want to marry because I want to experience every phase of life and I need a one to hold my hand forever in every phase of life. If you are married, can you answer me what was the aim for you to marry. What did you expect from your marriage and did you get that.
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7 responses
• India
18 Jul 07
Yeah I am also alone...........what r u thinking?.....Yes I want to marry........beacuse i have completed my student life then my parents khwaish is that i will marry.............Main thing is that ..if u wanna want too be single u can not live because in india u never live single..if u r leader of any party then u can livebut in indian family its not allow beacuse of the parents ....they don't want that their children live single mainly for girls boys can live thier is no problem for boys ..................
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• India
19 Jul 07
Yeah u r tru..........so i am going to next year..................
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@rakhii (1302)
• India
18 Jul 07
Truly said! But I think we need to go for marriage to get a better half for ourself, to get someone to walk along throughout your life, to be there in every situation, happiness and sadness, to hold your hand forever.
@carol_m (709)
• Philippines
19 Jul 07
For me, I don't mind being single. There are no kids to attend to, no stubborn husband to think of. On the other hand, sometimes I envy those who are happily married and wished I could end up like one of them. Still, marriage isn't one of my priorities as of the moment.
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@I_LUV_U (2519)
• India
20 Jul 07
I think women go for marriage because they want to live a safe & secure life. If an ordinary woman remains single, there are chances of evil men trying to exploit her. We hear and read such news every now and then in the media. However some dedicated women do stay unmarried all their life. They'll involve themselves in some social service along with other service-minded women. In such cases they get the help and support of some organisations. So, there'll be some security for them. About men, i can't exactly figure out why they get married. I can think of a several reasons. 1) Because they are bored of their bachelor life. 2) Because parents force them to marry, so that they can play with their grandchildren as soon as possible......i've seen this is movies.......HAHAHA 3) Love marriage ( Girl friend bugs him to marry as soon as possible....LOL) 4) DOWRY - The most obvious reason. I'm happy single. I really have no thoughts of marrying at all. As far as i'm happy with my bachelor life, i need not worry about marriage. May be that's what our country also needs. Indian population has already crossed 101 crores!! You said you would marry, I wish you get your dream guy.
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@rakhii (1302)
• India
20 Jul 07
Thanks a lot for your wishes! Hope they work for me!
@rakhii (1302)
• India
20 Jul 07
Thats true!
@fredgame (1260)
• China
19 Jul 07
Oh i'm single ,having the strong desire to get a partner who will be a friend, a sister, a mother as well as a wife forever in life. one who i'll forever love and see her as an angel of beauty, love, friend, in her i'll see that joy of togetherness. i never wish to stay single in life. God help those of us who are single to get a true and real love partners in Jesus'name Amen!
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@carryli (875)
• China
18 Jun 07
Marriage is a pair of lovers of feelings have reached a certain level, they can never aspire together, not separately with each other. And they want to form their own families, they will think of marriage, marriage is a pair of lovers feelings of a successful conclusion. I think the majority of people will feel that way.
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@rakhii (1302)
• India
19 Jun 07
Ya, very true. Marriage leads to successful conclusion, but isnt the case with everyone. Why does some of the marriages lead to divorce? Do you have an answer?
• India
20 Jul 07
i am single my partent don't allow me to marry.hahahaah
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• China
20 Jun 07
I am single but I still want to get married one day. Because I want to live a relatively complete life. I want not want to miss something important in life just like you do.
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@rakhii (1302)
• India
20 Jun 07
Thats good. Hope you and me get our better half very soon. Best of luck! Thanks for the response! You seem to be new to mylot! Welcome to mylot! Happy posting!
• India
21 Jul 07
dear friend, getting married is an individual's choice and i believe no one can force that individual to act against his/her wishes. And there are many examples, where we could find that the individual has stuck to his/her decision of not marrying and going alone in the life. In early years, atleast in India, it used to be forced upon the individual (girl or a boy) by his/her respective family elders to enter into a marriage. But now the things have definitely changed, parents have become more liberal and give due respect to the choices of their sons/daughters.