do u a cheat or not?why most guys do the cheat unlike girls??
June 18, 2007 1:10am CST
yes i believe most guys do cheating unlike girls maybe because they dont believe em' self or just a habbit or just wana play u noe have tooot or they wana hurt there partner to feel that they loved and so on.there's a lot of possibilities.....but still im not saying that all negative sides are from boys and not fo the girls it really depends sometimes girls just wana cheat because they want a revenge,or afraid that they'r lonely and wants all of the guys to be w/him etc...... some people specially in a relationship do that some are not!ure just a lucky person if ur partner love u somuch and will do anything not to hurt u or just what ive said to cheat u.....but if he/she wanna go back to u, do u stil welcome him/her with ure big heart??
18 Jun 07
Although there is more probability of boys cheating on girls as compared to girls cheating on boys, it doesnt apply universally. Many girls also cheat on boys. They run after boys for money and when they are done, they leave them. There are many such cases. I would say for myself that I dont have a boyfriend yet. If he cheats me, i may forgive him becuase I believe in relationships, but it again depends on the extent he cheated on me. But I hope nothing as such happens to me. Keeping my fingers crossed. Thanks!
18 Jun 07
well... in my case... honestly i was cheated by my boyfriend and i also cheated him... he was the first who cheated me..actually i was not the original girlfriend... he had his 2years girlfriend and while he made a commitment with me... i was surprised... really i am...they already broke up when i caught him... we were on his house when i read his calendar memo at his phone telling "we broke up...i cant live without her" while in my case... its different... i had a boyfriend while i still have a commitment with him. we talked on every problem that we goes through... it all depends on the maturity of the both person to understand the real face of the situation... he had a reason on what he did... i also have... it may not sound so valid but for us it had a positive result to our relationship... it made us stronger... we both had the fear to make another mistake... i dont want to lose him so i must do what is right...and he also feel the same way.. and now that we have a long distance relationship.... the FEAR, even if far from each other is still on our hearts and on our minds.. loyalty gains from the way how you waited to get it.