June 18, 2007 3:21am CST
I have this buddy whom I consider my best bud, we are working on the same company where we met and became best friendfor 25 years now. We are together in most of the important events in our lives. I was his best man when he got married and he was my best man when I got married too. I stood as godfather to her first born child and so as he to my first son. But lately, I could feel that he has this tendency to belittle me speially in front of our common friends everytime we have drinking party. He always compare his accomplishments with mine, it is irrtating me. Now my question is can you tolerate this kind of friend? me? I'm getting tired of him but I'm still holding on.
• United States
18 Jun 07
If you are that close, talk to him about it. Tell him how you are feeling. If he is truly your best friend, he will listen to what you have to say and will change the way he does things. I would never do anything to belittle my best friend. He may not even realize that he is doing it.
18 Jun 07
My ever best bud is my dog. She doesn't talk to me but I can always count on her everytime I needed someone to talk to. She never failed to listen to me when I am sad and alone. She is always there. I consider her my best bud because she never betrayed me or any signs that she will betray me someday unlike a a real person who can hurt you someday.