ex- husbands & ex-wifes

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I was not sure where to post this but I thought if I post it here this would maybe help others. I was talking with my ex-husband this morning about our daughter; she lives there and I don't see her that much. Well he tells me that he has been in a relationship for over 3 yrs. His reason for not telling me this was there was a disagrement about what she had said to my daughter and instead of talking to me he told me that they were no longer dating end of story, he assumed I'd be upset that he was dating this woman. I am a person that will stand up for myself, speak my mind and I like to talk things out. I have a strong voice, out-going nature and I guess sometimes I can even come across a little strong for others if they don't know me but to me to hold this info from me for so long is wrong. I feel that is important because if your daughter or son has someone involved in their lives especially, if it's a step parent to be, the other parent should be involved. Single parents out there talk with the other parent, it helps if there are conflicts and will help prevent conflicts. It's for our kids benifit. I hope this can help others. I understand being the single parent that visits, it can be hard. bbsmiles