Ladies, When you are Quiet what are you thinking?

United States
June 19, 2007 10:56pm CST
This is a little awkward for me to ask because I dont want the ladies on MyLot to feel that I am asking them for a secret. I am just curious because I am the type of guy that, this sort of thing really eats me up inside. I have this friend of mine, Steph, and I REALLY care about her, she has become a great part of my life and most of the times we cant stop talking but some days as I walk her to her car or we get together she seems a bit too quiet. She wont say much, if anything at all and I care about her so I usually end up asking her. She says "nothing" but I can tell something is on her mind. She doesnt have family troubles or anything and a day or so later she is back to normal again. I just start to wonder that when women are quiet, what do they usually think about? I know that this depends on the situation but there has to be something that usually goes through your mind! Help me out ladies! I really appreciate it :)
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@coolcat123 (4387)
• India
30 Jun 07
why dont u ask her......it would not be interfearing rather sharing problems if any! when i am quite then that means i am thinking something ....bcoz as i usually do that. thinking any.........like my future,my studies,my parents etc........and much more.
• Philippines
21 Jun 07
well it could eb two things . .. :) it could be that we are not comfortable with the person we are with or it maybe we just have a lot of things in our minds. So the next time your wondering why the girl you are with is really quiet just bear in mind. Try to be a good host or if she's really thats shy make her comfortable theres lots of things a girl is thinking, just be a good host make the girl talk some more and entertain her. Theres really a lot of things you could do to make a girl happy on a date. Heres also another way . . you could tease her and keep quiet while looking at her eyes and just smiling . . that truly makes us smile (only if you have a nice smile) have a good day.