How do you feel about people who set the pace in the passing lane?
By ladyluna
@ladyluna (7004)
United States
June 21, 2007 10:13am CST
You're happily driving along to work, when suddenly you come up on the rear-end of a long line of traffic in the passing lane. One driver, several cars ahead, has decided to set the speed of travel 5 mph below the speed limit.
How do you feel about this? Do you do this? If so, why? Do you think this is a conscious or unconscious act, on the part of the pace setter? Do you think that one, very law abiding citizen should assume the responsibility to make sure that no one else speeds?
I'm interested to hear how you feel about this.
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9 responses
@charms88 (7538)
• Philippines
21 Jun 07
Hi luna. I have been driving for a decade now and still, I don't drive fast. I can only drive within the city and not to some faraway places.
I wouldn't mind seeing a driver driving on a snail pace. There can be many reasons for it. The driver is not yet familiar with the road, is still nervous about driving,happened to be elderly, and so on.
I will either change lane or signal the driver that I will overtake. However, there are some drivers who will open their car windows and cursed the driver. I'm a very patient driver and wouldn't mind it.
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@ladyluna (7004)
• United States
21 Jun 07
Hello Charms,
How are you my friend? Thanks for hopping by.
It's very sweet of you to be so patient with other drivers. So, when you say that you will signal the driver to overtake, if you cannot switch lanes, how would you make that signal in your country? Here we would double flash our high-beam headlights. What about in your neck of the woods?
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@ladyluna (7004)
• United States
21 Jun 07
Thanks for letting us know that double-flashing is kind of a universal signal for "get on out of the way, pokey driver". Although the vernacular is designed for a bit of humor ... it really is very helpful to know the rules of the road, in other countries.
Beeping, even once, on the interstate or fast moving highway, is something that I try to avoid. I suspect that it spooks people who are travelling at high speeds.
So, is there a commonly understood language of the number of beeps on your roads. For example, one long beep here (USA) means that you're really aggravated. One short beep is kind of a nice reminder for someone to 'wake up', and get moving, etc...
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@lordwarwizard (35747)
• Singapore
21 Jun 07
Well, I think if he is driving too slow and not on a provisional licence, you should go ahead and give him a big HONK.
It is not right to exceed the limit, yet by going too slow, you are hogging the traffic. That is not right too.
@lordwarwizard (35747)
• Singapore
21 Jun 07
No no, when someone first passes the test, he will get that funny looking sign to stick at the back of his car. For a year.
He is supposed to drive like the rest. But if you see that sign, you know he just passed and so does not have much practical experience. That's why I feel it is only gentlemanly/lady-like to cut him some slack. If you honk him, he might really get stressed out and cause some accidents! :P
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@ladyluna (7004)
• United States
21 Jun 07
Good point about avoiding scaring the bejeebers out of newbies.
I can see how having newbie drivers 'tagged' with an identifyer could be really helpful. We have no such delineation in the USA. Yet, I suspect if we had such a tag, people would show them more patience. Or, maybe I'm just being hopeful!
Thanks for that info Wizzy. Very interesting!
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@TheGreatWhiteBuffalo (4822)
• United States
22 Jun 07
Safety involves keeping your distance from all vehicles and that makes using the horn well less efficient? Blowing your horn at a big rig might actually be futile.
Asking or expecting larger vehicles to move out of your way can also be complicated by all of the people getting around that larger vehicle, you know there are many games played by people driving from point A to B... I'd like to share some of my pet peeves, but I don't want to give anyone who hasn't thought to do this the information to actually do this... In other words there arer things that are so dangerous and happen all too often that I wouldn't want people knowing or trying this dangerous thing in a fit of anger or other. Yet, if a mistake is made, I think the words recounting the event would clearly make the guilt and fault of the party in the wrong so obvious, if only us big guys are permitted to be heard. I've experienced things that would make your skin crawl... How could people do that? Luckily for me, when the mistake was made there were good people that saw how good I was and one person was so impressed that they drove way out of their way and back to the accident scene just to give information to the police.
Paying the good deed back stopped when an evil lie came from the mouth of an abusive bully who is a detective.
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@ladyluna (7004)
• United States
24 Jun 07
Hello GreatWhiteBuffalo,
Thanks for posting your thoughts about one rig passing another. Very useful info.
As for the racing course ... I'd love to take one. Not only would it be a great help in day to day driving, but I think it would be alot of fun as well.
I actually believe myself to be a pretty good driver, but there's always room for improvement. I had a great teaher, my Father. He was real big on 'defensive driving' techniques. So, I learned early on to remain very conscious on the road, and to always try to determine which moves the cars around me might make. Driving on the roads isn't so unlike a good chess match.
@Angelwhispers (8978)
• United States
21 Jun 07
LadyLuna, most of the time it drives me insane. If I am getting particularly aggravated, I always ask myself what is the hurry anyway? But Jeez Please at least do the speed limit. I admit I have a heavy foot, most of the time it is unintentional, and I have gotten a few speeding tickets because of this. If I see a line of cars behind me and I look down at the speedometer and going a bit under I am embarrassed and will pick up the pace to at least the limit or just a bit above. I always feel like I am going to get run over if I don't either get out of the way or pick up the speed.
I think if you have someone who is below the limit and there is a lot of traffic behind them I tend to think they are just maybe day dreaming and driving. That happens to me occasionally too. I would really hate to think its intentional... crips talk about road rage.
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@ladyluna (7004)
• United States
22 Jun 07
Hello Angelwhispers,
It sounds as though you are a very considerate driver.
Ya' know, if you have cruise control, it really helps to fend off those pesky speeding tickets. I know it helps to keep me out of traffic court, thankfully. Tickets are such a bummer!
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@Kowgirl (3489)
• United States
22 Jun 07
People who do that are usually just exerting control. The reason for that is they have been under someones thumb for a while and this is their way of taking back some control in their lives. It gives them some sense of satisfaction.It also causes road rage in some people and they can get hurt. They should move to the far right lane and let others go the speed they want. But then again thats wishful thinking. There is always someone like that when you are in a hurry.
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@ladyluna (7004)
• United States
22 Jun 07
Hi Sigma,
Oh geeze, could I tell you stories about 'drifty drivers' in Santa Fe? Wow, it's amazing! For the longest time, I figured they were just 'high'. But, as I've lived here so long, I don't believe that is the case. They're just 'drifty'. And your description of "asleep at the wheel of life", is so on target!
@ladyluna (7004)
• United States
22 Jun 07
Hello Kowgirl,
So, you do think it's a conscious attempt to set the pace? Hmmm, I'd like to think that it's less manipulative, and more daydreaming as Angelwhispers suggested. But, you may be right.
I often see people driving under the speed limit in the passing lane, for long distances, without moving over. Either they're oblivious about what their mirrors are used for, or they don't care that other cars are all over each other tails.
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@whyaskq (7523)
• Singapore
23 Jun 07
I would feel irritated. If the lane is meant to be speeding, one should be considerate enough to drive at the recommended speed limit. If he decided to slow down, it is more considerate of him to move over to another lane. I doubt the person is partaking as a law abiding citizen to regulate the traffic speed. It is probably he has no confidence to speed up.
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@TheGreatWhiteBuffalo (4822)
• United States
23 Jun 07
What about the turtle that turns into a jack rabbit when you try to overtake them?
A real problem to this issue is the harm that a person going slow on the highway poses to themselves if they are deliberately being obnoxious.
If the person is deliberately attempting to slow other drivers down, then they are likely to be tailgated putting everyone at risk.
Merging traffic can also play into this topic, do you move over for slower traffic just getting onto the highway? YOu have to be alert to all that is going on around you, and if you get over left going down hill just before the climb of a mountain on the other side of this valley how can other drivers help make room for obviously going to be going slow drivers to allow them to get over right making a space because everyone is awake?...
Supppose everyone just decides to drive by,,, right? The funny thing is miles and miles of road and it is the piece of road that I'm driving on that the other person wants...
This gives me a thought for a new car design, a car that can be driven over, imagine a highway where stacks of cars are driving over each other... LOL... Who needs a fast lane when you can just drive over the car that is in your way, remember the game of leapfrog? Obviously I'm just being silly here, but it isn't silly when people actually cause problems by driving this way...
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@whyaskq (7523)
• Singapore
23 Jun 07
I dont flash headlights or high beam. That might blind the person and cause an accident. I will definitely overtake the person. If possible, I will just take the place in front of him and then speed off. He can crawl at his own pace if he wants to. But, I am sure he will speed up and try to "catch" me. They hate to be overtaken! That's the mentality of most drivers, right? Hehehehe.. Having some morning fun here :P
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@KrisNY (7590)
• United States
22 Jun 07
I hate this!!!! absolutley hate it- If I'm following a long line of cars and we aren't going the speed limit- I get frustrated- I wonder why the cars in the front dont pass- I wonder why the first car isn't going faster- It drives me bonkers- Our expressway just closed- they are repaving AGAIN-- until November- so we have to take the back road to and from work- speed limit is 55--- on a good day I'm going 45- Let me tell you- It is hard to sit behind all the cars and mosey along- It's just wrong!
@ladyluna (7004)
• United States
22 Jun 07
Thank you KrisNY for venting with us. I hope you feel better now that you've gotten that off your chest. I did the exact same thing when I got to the office today -- 7 minutes late! Arrgghhh! Venting is a good thing (as I take a deep breath, and relax).
Whatever happened to courtesy? If I'm not in a hurry, I respect that others might be, and I get on outa' their way.
@vokey9472 (1486)
• United States
22 Jun 07
Well, techinically no one should be driving in the passing lane for any reason other than passing someone else. That being said, we all know that many people do not use the passing lane just for passing. Lots of people consider it the fast lane and drive on it like it is just a regular lane.
I don't see the problem with anyone in any lane driving the speed limit. The law says we are not supposed to go over the speed limit and we shouldn't. If someone going the speed limit is making someone else late, too bad.
@ladyluna (7004)
• United States
22 Jun 07
Hello Vokey,
Thank you for your input. I agree that we shouldn't begrudge someone driving the posted speed limit. However, as my original post outlines, the driver in the left lane was controlling traffic at 5mph under the speed limit. This is not only frustrating, but dangerous as well.
Thanks again!










